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First. I find your posts informative, entertaining, and always worth a second or third read, so thank you for your hard and worthwhile work. Second. Please take care of yourself. Your work is vital, but you are far more important than the work. Thank you.

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To whom you are attracted sexually is purely subjective and therefore cannot reasonably be contested by an outside observer.

Where you decide to live your life on a spectrum of superficial, stereotypical male to female attributes (and we all do) is also purely subjective and similarly cannot be questioned.

However, your biological sex reflects an objective reality which cannot be changed by your subjective personal view and futile attempts to do so can result in serious health impacts to you as well as harms to members of the sex you are impersonating (primarily women).

Others who are grounded in objective reality should never be forced to accept your subjective version of your actual biological sex.

Finally, it's past time for the LGB community to separate themselves from the trans activists who are trying to take away the rights of women to fairness in sports and to privacy and safety in their restrooms, locker rooms and prisons. They also advocate for the chemical and surgical mutilation of children many of whom would grow up gay.

Their actions are evil and the

understandable negative reaction to the harm they are causing is spilling over to innocent people who are just going about their business, marrying and leading their lives.

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1. Doxxing. 2. Aren't you a speech pathologist?

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Yes, and yes. I'm a state-licensed SLP in California, certified clinically competent by ASHA, a national private non profit membership organization.

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Also I appreciate you very much. You inspire me to tell the truth

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You look beautiful , Ex!

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I had no idea you have only been off hormones for 3 years.

I find your work very interesting & educational.

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I never wanted to be centered in my work because it's not about me, but as I've gone through this process I've realized that my story does matter and might help someone or add to the chorus of narratives of iatrogenic harm.

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Mr. Em doesn't seem to know much about female physiology. Progesterone is not just for "birth control." It's a normal component of our bodies, and takes a dive often in the early thirties, requiring supplementation in order to optimize health. It's also a required component in most post-menopausal HRT regimens. HRT is not that thing he takes. It's the thing many women take.

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You’re looking absolutely beautiful, and glow-ey!! (Not a word but should be 😆)

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I am 73 now and have never felt “beautiful”. I wasn’t a conventionally pretty child - the best thing my mother could say to me was that I was “plain but interesting.” And now I look back at photos of my younger self and think “Dammit, you were effing gorgeous.” You are beautiful. Enjoy your new found female youthfulness.

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My ❤️won't stick to your post.

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You’re definitely looking softer than when I first started watching your videos, not to mention glowing these days. Thank you for taking the time to inform us and for sharing your experience.

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Yea that's a good way to put it. Letting my body make estrogen again softened my features from fat redistribution.

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You're wonderful. Basic self care which you're already doing will work wonders over the next few years. True health isn't about the quick fix, it's the daily habits you're already engaged in. Regular meals, body movement, etc. Sending solidarity and compassion for this journey.

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You are AMAZING and God loves you just as you are. There’s a reason that you’ve found your voice and that will save hundreds of not thousands of people. Give yourself grace and know that there are so many of us out here that appreciate you!!

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Congratulations on gaining integration and your rightful glow.

My hunch is any feeling behind developmentally is much more apparent to you than anyone else. Things balance out.

Youthful femininity is fun, but so is middle aged femininity. IMO, it's even more fun with age. There's really a lot to look forward to!

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Well said, Sister!

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What a huge change. You look great. I noticed that in the video of you in Florida. Mr Emily is a poisonous little viper. These men don’t even try to conceal how much they hate women. Please keep up the important work you do.

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See what happens if he starts talking about his mother. I am thinking Bates Motel level psycho

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Ah yes! Hitchcock had the right idea about these guys!

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You look great, Ex. Love you.

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Yep. I have noticed you keep looking better every time I see your videos. I jokingly told myself, "She's becoming a straight woman". lol Thanks for all the great content.

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