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joolzzt's avatar

You are taking the right stance. It might sound tough to some, but it's important that you use your energy where it can be of most help.

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Terri Aqui's avatar

Good, clear explanation.

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Allison's avatar

Well said!

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EH's avatar

It all has to be about them, always. Even when they don't want what you're selling.

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Deadladyofclowntown's avatar

No matter what you do, someone is going to complain. You're doing the right thing, never fear.

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Deadladyofclowntown's avatar

No matter what you do, someone is going to complain. You're doing the right thing, never fear.

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Deborah Peifer's avatar

Yes. You are exactly right, and I thank you for your eloquence.

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crazy fucking female's avatar

trans people tell us that calling an adult human male a man is hate speech, on par with genocidal nazi propaganda. there is no reaching them with logical argument. and any attempt by exulansic to bowdlerize her message, for their benefit, so they might hear her out, would stink in all our nostrils like the rotting flesh of gender-affirming aftermath.

on the contrary, exulansic’s words of truth are tonic to my soul. i am still following her after 4 years because i need to hear from at least one other person on earth that i’m not crazy. and i need it in clear, straightforward langauge that sticks with me and gives me courage to face the wider world. we have never met but i am full of gratitude that i get to hear her words. God forbid she should change her methods, in order to appeal to a population who is determined NOT to hear her.

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crazy fucking female's avatar

i remember in one of the jazz episodes, exulansic said “i don’t know what would be best for him. i don’t know what he should do.” because that’s not her mission. she has no advice for him. she is never talking TO him, only ABOUT him.

she is not here for people like jazz. she is here for people like us, for our families, for our neighbors and coworkers, for whom there *is* still time to turn back and think again. in a world gone mad, there are so many who are scared to say anything offensive about trans people. meanwhile there are so few of her.

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Aurem's avatar

The catcher in the rye <3

(Edit: I know the protagonist in The Catcher In The Rye had his own inaccurate ideological narrative ideas about the supposed innocence/purity of children and the phoniness of adults, but just uh, removing the rest of the context from the book itself, Holden’s vague aspiration to be a person he imagines as responsible for “catching” children in the field before they “start to go over the cliff” is more or less what you’re doing in actuality. https://www.sparknotes.com/lit/catcher/central-idea-essay/what-does-the-title-mean/ )

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MerryInUtah's avatar

Tough love! Keep it up Exulansic!

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Kristine Roser's avatar

Exulansic, I am always impressed by your noble intentions. Your motivations are to do very great good, and the cost to you seems to be high. There. Someone had to say it.

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Violet Violence's avatar

Did she stutter?

Nope!

Heck yeah, Ex!

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PJ's avatar

You're right. Right is right.

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lovethejabberwocky0228's avatar

I appreciate your content because it is raw. You strip things down to expose the bare bones and don't make or take excuses. And you are wildly hilarious!!

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