I saw Elleat respond to her baby's cries for attention with a hateful stare. That stare made me believe that a lot more parental abuse is in store for this poor little girl. I truly hated Elleat at that moment. But what is the best for this child? Foster children are often viewed only as a source of income--and they also get abused. I wish some agency like CPS had money to provide psychotherapy and social support. Like daycare? Like AI robots to help parent? I don't know but I'm struggling to contain my own rage which comes up when Elleat is also acting rageful at his victimization. And blaming EVERYONE. When he gets off the phone with you, he's going to blame his child. There was a psychiatric paper concerning the origins of child abuse. Why do parents hate their children (yes, it seems as if Elleat truly hates his child when she expresses neediness for his attention--How dare she bother him!) Anyway, the paper concluded envy was a major cause. This woman never felt truly cherished and cared for. She wants more than anything (more than a penis?) to be the beloved child who can do no wrong. How dare her own daughter end up in that position. Elleat is DEFINITELY not going to give her daughter what she never had. And she's going to resent every minute that this child dares to beg her for mothering. As Steve Irwin, the Crocodile Hunter, used to say on his show when threatened by some snake or crocodile that he wanted to pick up and display to his audience: DANGER, DANGER, DANGER!
There's a video where she shows the baby and says "As you can see, she's getting kinda chunkyyyy." Bam, mother's body dysmorphia is already projected onto the baby when it's weeks old. Happy future eating disorder, kid :(
you may have become, in her mind, her nemesis and her hope. you have shown you were captured and you escaped and are now more free. who wouldn't want to be like that.
What’s funny is the people still engulfed in these beliefs including ones who are some what lucid in thought like Marcus the offensive tranny, think that just means they were misdiagnosed and never trans. They don’t get that changing their bodies is a choice not a state of being. They’re not girls trapped in boys bodies who escape those bodies with surgery. Totally religious.
So why is this mother on multiple platforms? New mothers that I’ve known are usually EXHAUSTED! Oh, that’s right, she wants to be seen! Never mind what’s good for her baby, her family...
Exulansic, I watched the entire video on her TikTok yesterday and refrained from disabusing her of these notions that are entirely false because you specifically asked your followers to leave her alone. It’s funny because I went to sleep last night with thoughts of what I would have wanted to say like- you and I are not conservative, religious ( aren’t you an atheist?) , you’re a lesbian, I raised a gay son and on and on. It’s so clear to me that these people do not believe in free speech and it’s a dangerous cult, leaving absolutely no room for any opposition. The only saving grace is that you must be doing something right for them to be so threatened by you!
It's a really unfortunate, and sometimes a bit scary, aspect of modern social media that if we make public statements, sometimes we can get stalked. It's possible she's afraid of this and it's not an unreasonable fear. But apparently she made the decision to make public videos about herself, Exulansic didn't, and she's not recognizing this responsibility on her part. One thing is this-- the writer/researcher Jennifer Bilek has raised the hypothesis that some younger people now are so deeply and exclusively social-media-based in terms of interactions with other humans, that they really don't have the skills to make friends and get support IRL. perhaps this young woman does not have friends and was using her videos to try to reach out to the world. this entire thing is quite sad. but if she wants something, and she admits she's made false claims, she can just step up now and remove them.
It is most surprising that a tiktok person thinks they have and deserve privacy. Ellleot should get off tiktok if she doesn't want people knowing what she is doing, instead of complaining when followers notice her lack of judgement (among other things).
Right? It's not like she can just be an artist or whatever. No artist manages to post entirely about their art, no personal saga, and make sales or a living or anything. Oh wait.
I feel for the deluded woman. She hasn't seen the videos and assumes what her hive mind tells her to assume. She has no right to label anyone a bigot and anti trans unless she has seen the videos. BTW if she did she would see that you are trying to understand where she is coming from, and why she would assume that having back to back to back surgeries will make her able to work and mind her child. Custody given away is not a good look, she has something that she's hiding. That poor baby
Harsh but true. Maybe though she's better to the baby when not on social media? Judging by the cleanliness of the baby I hope that's true. There is something though about her handling of the baby and that she does not seem to realise that her baby needs a lot more interaction than she seems to be getting. The pills though worry me
She plays with the baby the way I play with cats and dogs. I watched her “entertain” the baby by holding tissue paper over the baby’s head and crinkling it? All the while hawking the jewelry she sells. Then she took small folded pieces of paper and sprinkled them on the baby’s body - these tiny pieces of paper had things like pronouns and wouldn’t you know that the pronouns the baby “picked” were they/them, religion-atheist and on and on- filming the whole thing for her followers.It’s all part of her gender hustle! Her followers sent her loads of baby gifts- I have nothing against charity but the reason she’s getting it is because she’s spending her money on herself!The vibes are all around not good!
I listened to a Buddhist webinar. The speakers stated the 3 sources of human sorrow were Greed, Hatred, and Delusion. And I would say that we are often blind to our own experiences of these conditions. I think Elleat seems to suffer a lot from hatred and delusion. She is blind to her own hatred and is, instead, feeling justified in her opposition to Exulansic's "abuse." Meanwhile, she comes across as an impoverished, desperately needy person, struggling to survive with the world against her--only because she is LGBT. She truly seems to hate her baby for demanding to be mothered. "How dare my baby require my attention!" I'm 80 years old. I never had children because I felt so needy myself that I didn't want to have to care for a baby. At least I knew my own deficiencies and didn't want to inflict them on my future child.
We can see that Elleat suffers from delusion because she is also blind to her greed. Who promises her a penis and pays for her surgeries? Surely she doesn't expect to get phalloplasties, mastectomies,hormones, etc. that are worth about $70,000 when she only has $200 in her bank account? Will she beg for funding on GoFundMe? When (as is most likely) the surgeries fail and she develops sepsis or other serious health problems, will she then drop out of the church of perpetual phalloplasty?
I'm feeling like crying. I wonder what her husband is like? Can they love each other?
I would like to say one more thing about delusion. Delusion is not a simple problem of irrationality. I believe delusion is almost inevitable when one is impoverished, abused and traumatized. Because mistreatment SHOULDN'T HAPPEN. And Elleat is mistreating herself along with her child and probably her husband, too. Have you heard of the cargo cult? This was a religion embraced by impoverished South Pacific? tribes who saw that white folks had much more stuff. When the wealthy colonial elites sailed away, the tribes believed that they would soon return and share all their wealth and favors. They believed this against all evidence.
I believe that a ship should be sailing into Elleat's harbor bringing the magic penis along with fame, appreciation, money--whatever Elleat needs to feel good. Maybe it SHOULD be--but it probably WON'T BE. Good luck trying to get Elleat to believe that. If Elleat and all trans men could be magically transformed into real males (just like Pinocchio), will they be happy? Gosh look I can pee standing up. I'm desirable. In fact I'm superior. What I always wanted to be. If you don't approve of me--why, then you're a TERF bitch, and I hate you, too. It seems Elleat is also blind to her own self hatred. Maybe I sound as though I'm mocking her/him. This situation is extremely hard to tolerate. It's so easy to denounce Elleat because she just oozes abuse which makes me feel uncomfortable. Exlulansic--thanks for fighting against these tragedies. May you live long and prosper.
I have hope that she takes good care of her previous baby. I believe her natural instinct to protect is present and innate. Wishing her luck as you would any new parent.
Does anyone else think it’s hilarious and completely delusional that she calls her family “alternative “ as in different, unique and so cool? When in reality she’s a little girl married to a boy and they had PIV sex and what do you know- they had a baby! Wow! Who’d a thunk? I know, I know it’s all so outrageous...
her surgery is apparently a metoidioplasty (microphallus), not one of the arm-roll floppy skin tubes. since she’s not having her vagina sewn shut so her husband can continue to enjoy PIV sex with her, there presumably won’t even be fake mini-testicle implants so the end result will basically look like an enlarged clitoris, or maybe a weird fleshy mushroom? how this would work to make her feel like a man is a mystery, but she is clearly mentally ill and not making rational decisions.
In the context of old Carnivals/Freak Shows they were called He/Shes, or HermAphrodites. Personally I'd go along with non-binary pretentions and call them Its.
Elleot is a lying liar who cannot stop lying. This person could not withstand a single hour on a witness stand being cross-examined about any of their accusations.
I hope her husband has a well paid job as $200 won't go far with a baby and her back to back to back medical costs. Most women (and men) I know would prioritise their child over unnecessary surgery. Doesn't her husband care about money wasted on surgery that could benefit their child?
But I find it hard to take anyone seriously who looks like they have two great big snotters that need a wipe. 🤢
Oh Exulansic you do have a way of taking up residence in peoples' heads! Why would any of your followers call an already overburdened CPS wherever she lives, even if you were encouraging us to? It might pain her to know that most people, including her 150K followers, don't care enough to get personally involved in her life. She could stop posting videos tomorrow and our lives wouldn't skip a beat.
She wants to give up custody of her baby to her husband anyway, but somehow that is the fault of 'transphobes'.
Also, admitting that you don't want custody of your baby AND that CPS has already been called on you is pretty telling. I shudder at the thought of what goes on when the camera is off.
If CPS were to determine that she had abused/neglected or was unfit, it is unlikely they would give the baby to the husband due to his failure to protect the baby from her.
"Spoiler alert: I'm still following you on all of those platforms" - bahaha. I loved your delivery. Just in case it is not clear, I would never contact the people that you talk about and would never go and bother them. I really value your commentary on all the surgery / medication outcomes and that is best done as you do it, from a distance.
God ,so it's abusive to try and save these confused ,indoctrinated young people from this toxic and damaging ideology ,and ultimately from themselves as they allow themselves to be manipulated and mutilated by these monsters ? Cults have a history of ending badly for its members and we need to keep trying to save as many of them as possible. Keep up the good work 👍👏❤️
She has a lot of fantasy to interprete your words, Ex, in her favorised way... Very focused&mature. I‘m sorry baby Salem, you deserve caring parents. I deeply hope yours are about to grow up quickly to be there for you like you need and deserve!
I saw Elleat respond to her baby's cries for attention with a hateful stare. That stare made me believe that a lot more parental abuse is in store for this poor little girl. I truly hated Elleat at that moment. But what is the best for this child? Foster children are often viewed only as a source of income--and they also get abused. I wish some agency like CPS had money to provide psychotherapy and social support. Like daycare? Like AI robots to help parent? I don't know but I'm struggling to contain my own rage which comes up when Elleat is also acting rageful at his victimization. And blaming EVERYONE. When he gets off the phone with you, he's going to blame his child. There was a psychiatric paper concerning the origins of child abuse. Why do parents hate their children (yes, it seems as if Elleat truly hates his child when she expresses neediness for his attention--How dare she bother him!) Anyway, the paper concluded envy was a major cause. This woman never felt truly cherished and cared for. She wants more than anything (more than a penis?) to be the beloved child who can do no wrong. How dare her own daughter end up in that position. Elleat is DEFINITELY not going to give her daughter what she never had. And she's going to resent every minute that this child dares to beg her for mothering. As Steve Irwin, the Crocodile Hunter, used to say on his show when threatened by some snake or crocodile that he wanted to pick up and display to his audience: DANGER, DANGER, DANGER!
There's a video where she shows the baby and says "As you can see, she's getting kinda chunkyyyy." Bam, mother's body dysmorphia is already projected onto the baby when it's weeks old. Happy future eating disorder, kid :(
She follows me on multiple platforms! SO CREEPY!!
you may have become, in her mind, her nemesis and her hope. you have shown you were captured and you escaped and are now more free. who wouldn't want to be like that.
What’s funny is the people still engulfed in these beliefs including ones who are some what lucid in thought like Marcus the offensive tranny, think that just means they were misdiagnosed and never trans. They don’t get that changing their bodies is a choice not a state of being. They’re not girls trapped in boys bodies who escape those bodies with surgery. Totally religious.
And yet she hasn't watched your videos!!
Oh I see, you're quoting what she said about you.
So why is this mother on multiple platforms? New mothers that I’ve known are usually EXHAUSTED! Oh, that’s right, she wants to be seen! Never mind what’s good for her baby, her family...
Exulansic, I watched the entire video on her TikTok yesterday and refrained from disabusing her of these notions that are entirely false because you specifically asked your followers to leave her alone. It’s funny because I went to sleep last night with thoughts of what I would have wanted to say like- you and I are not conservative, religious ( aren’t you an atheist?) , you’re a lesbian, I raised a gay son and on and on. It’s so clear to me that these people do not believe in free speech and it’s a dangerous cult, leaving absolutely no room for any opposition. The only saving grace is that you must be doing something right for them to be so threatened by you!
It's a really unfortunate, and sometimes a bit scary, aspect of modern social media that if we make public statements, sometimes we can get stalked. It's possible she's afraid of this and it's not an unreasonable fear. But apparently she made the decision to make public videos about herself, Exulansic didn't, and she's not recognizing this responsibility on her part. One thing is this-- the writer/researcher Jennifer Bilek has raised the hypothesis that some younger people now are so deeply and exclusively social-media-based in terms of interactions with other humans, that they really don't have the skills to make friends and get support IRL. perhaps this young woman does not have friends and was using her videos to try to reach out to the world. this entire thing is quite sad. but if she wants something, and she admits she's made false claims, she can just step up now and remove them.
It is most surprising that a tiktok person thinks they have and deserve privacy. Ellleot should get off tiktok if she doesn't want people knowing what she is doing, instead of complaining when followers notice her lack of judgement (among other things).
But if she left TikTok who would be left to 1. Send her baby gifts and 2. Constantly tell her how wonderful and stunning and brave she is???
Right? It's not like she can just be an artist or whatever. No artist manages to post entirely about their art, no personal saga, and make sales or a living or anything. Oh wait.
It’s all a grift- she happens to be a gender grifter!
I feel for the deluded woman. She hasn't seen the videos and assumes what her hive mind tells her to assume. She has no right to label anyone a bigot and anti trans unless she has seen the videos. BTW if she did she would see that you are trying to understand where she is coming from, and why she would assume that having back to back to back surgeries will make her able to work and mind her child. Custody given away is not a good look, she has something that she's hiding. That poor baby
He needs a lobotomy!
VASECTOMY!
Even better!🤣
Would be interesting to know if he was
Harsh but true. Maybe though she's better to the baby when not on social media? Judging by the cleanliness of the baby I hope that's true. There is something though about her handling of the baby and that she does not seem to realise that her baby needs a lot more interaction than she seems to be getting. The pills though worry me
She plays with the baby the way I play with cats and dogs. I watched her “entertain” the baby by holding tissue paper over the baby’s head and crinkling it? All the while hawking the jewelry she sells. Then she took small folded pieces of paper and sprinkled them on the baby’s body - these tiny pieces of paper had things like pronouns and wouldn’t you know that the pronouns the baby “picked” were they/them, religion-atheist and on and on- filming the whole thing for her followers.It’s all part of her gender hustle! Her followers sent her loads of baby gifts- I have nothing against charity but the reason she’s getting it is because she’s spending her money on herself!The vibes are all around not good!
I listened to a Buddhist webinar. The speakers stated the 3 sources of human sorrow were Greed, Hatred, and Delusion. And I would say that we are often blind to our own experiences of these conditions. I think Elleat seems to suffer a lot from hatred and delusion. She is blind to her own hatred and is, instead, feeling justified in her opposition to Exulansic's "abuse." Meanwhile, she comes across as an impoverished, desperately needy person, struggling to survive with the world against her--only because she is LGBT. She truly seems to hate her baby for demanding to be mothered. "How dare my baby require my attention!" I'm 80 years old. I never had children because I felt so needy myself that I didn't want to have to care for a baby. At least I knew my own deficiencies and didn't want to inflict them on my future child.
We can see that Elleat suffers from delusion because she is also blind to her greed. Who promises her a penis and pays for her surgeries? Surely she doesn't expect to get phalloplasties, mastectomies,hormones, etc. that are worth about $70,000 when she only has $200 in her bank account? Will she beg for funding on GoFundMe? When (as is most likely) the surgeries fail and she develops sepsis or other serious health problems, will she then drop out of the church of perpetual phalloplasty?
I'm feeling like crying. I wonder what her husband is like? Can they love each other?
I would like to say one more thing about delusion. Delusion is not a simple problem of irrationality. I believe delusion is almost inevitable when one is impoverished, abused and traumatized. Because mistreatment SHOULDN'T HAPPEN. And Elleat is mistreating herself along with her child and probably her husband, too. Have you heard of the cargo cult? This was a religion embraced by impoverished South Pacific? tribes who saw that white folks had much more stuff. When the wealthy colonial elites sailed away, the tribes believed that they would soon return and share all their wealth and favors. They believed this against all evidence.
I believe that a ship should be sailing into Elleat's harbor bringing the magic penis along with fame, appreciation, money--whatever Elleat needs to feel good. Maybe it SHOULD be--but it probably WON'T BE. Good luck trying to get Elleat to believe that. If Elleat and all trans men could be magically transformed into real males (just like Pinocchio), will they be happy? Gosh look I can pee standing up. I'm desirable. In fact I'm superior. What I always wanted to be. If you don't approve of me--why, then you're a TERF bitch, and I hate you, too. It seems Elleat is also blind to her own self hatred. Maybe I sound as though I'm mocking her/him. This situation is extremely hard to tolerate. It's so easy to denounce Elleat because she just oozes abuse which makes me feel uncomfortable. Exlulansic--thanks for fighting against these tragedies. May you live long and prosper.
Diana, I somehow missed your comment here but am so glad to finally read it! It makes so much sense - some deep ‘shit’ that hits home! Go Buddha!❤️
I have hope that she takes good care of her previous baby. I believe her natural instinct to protect is present and innate. Wishing her luck as you would any new parent.
Does anyone else think it’s hilarious and completely delusional that she calls her family “alternative “ as in different, unique and so cool? When in reality she’s a little girl married to a boy and they had PIV sex and what do you know- they had a baby! Wow! Who’d a thunk? I know, I know it’s all so outrageous...
She’s not even gay!
There's probably an entire p0rnhub category dedicated to videos of people shaving the hair of those things.
her surgery is apparently a metoidioplasty (microphallus), not one of the arm-roll floppy skin tubes. since she’s not having her vagina sewn shut so her husband can continue to enjoy PIV sex with her, there presumably won’t even be fake mini-testicle implants so the end result will basically look like an enlarged clitoris, or maybe a weird fleshy mushroom? how this would work to make her feel like a man is a mystery, but she is clearly mentally ill and not making rational decisions.
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/21668-metoidioplasty
Oh, good grief, I followed your link. Eew, ick. Fake teeny-weenie and an inadequate little beardlet. Hubba hubba.
Ah, right - you are correct. I knew that and thankfully forgot somehow 😂
In the context of old Carnivals/Freak Shows they were called He/Shes, or HermAphrodites. Personally I'd go along with non-binary pretentions and call them Its.
Guess Nancy Reagan was right...
Just say NO🤣
You assume he cares about anything other than his own sexual pleasure. He clearly didn't care enough to even use a condom.
Elleot is a lying liar who cannot stop lying. This person could not withstand a single hour on a witness stand being cross-examined about any of their accusations.
I hope her husband has a well paid job as $200 won't go far with a baby and her back to back to back medical costs. Most women (and men) I know would prioritise their child over unnecessary surgery. Doesn't her husband care about money wasted on surgery that could benefit their child?
But I find it hard to take anyone seriously who looks like they have two great big snotters that need a wipe. 🤢
Oh Exulansic you do have a way of taking up residence in peoples' heads! Why would any of your followers call an already overburdened CPS wherever she lives, even if you were encouraging us to? It might pain her to know that most people, including her 150K followers, don't care enough to get personally involved in her life. She could stop posting videos tomorrow and our lives wouldn't skip a beat.
It is sad how she's got so many followers but only 95 comments on this. Guess people can tell they're being manipulated
I find her husband EXTREMELY sus
SAME
She wants to give up custody of her baby to her husband anyway, but somehow that is the fault of 'transphobes'.
Also, admitting that you don't want custody of your baby AND that CPS has already been called on you is pretty telling. I shudder at the thought of what goes on when the camera is off.
She says she's been using her address and friends'/families' addresses for her Etsy shop.
She wouldn't be hard to find, and with 150,000 followers she's pretty blasé.
Her poor voice :( and she's losing her hair, too.
Despite that she's an impaired mother, I think giving sole custody of the baby to the husband would be a serious mistake.
Thank you, Exulansic.
If CPS were to determine that she had abused/neglected or was unfit, it is unlikely they would give the baby to the husband due to his failure to protect the baby from her.
"Spoiler alert: I'm still following you on all of those platforms" - bahaha. I loved your delivery. Just in case it is not clear, I would never contact the people that you talk about and would never go and bother them. I really value your commentary on all the surgery / medication outcomes and that is best done as you do it, from a distance.
God ,so it's abusive to try and save these confused ,indoctrinated young people from this toxic and damaging ideology ,and ultimately from themselves as they allow themselves to be manipulated and mutilated by these monsters ? Cults have a history of ending badly for its members and we need to keep trying to save as many of them as possible. Keep up the good work 👍👏❤️
She has a lot of fantasy to interprete your words, Ex, in her favorised way... Very focused&mature. I‘m sorry baby Salem, you deserve caring parents. I deeply hope yours are about to grow up quickly to be there for you like you need and deserve!