exactly yes. this i think is a kind of accepted concept in substance recovery work, that people freeze in development at the age they start using. i know a couple men in their 60s who started drinking as teens and now not drinking but struggling to get beyond young-man mindset.
I'm all out of patience with these people calling anyone who doesn't agree with them "transphobic" (transphobia: fear of the transmob) and hateful. How can people put details of their private lives out there for the world to see if they don't want people to comment on it! "Feel free to comment, but only love and praise, please."
So tired of this cult imposing their delusional baggage on everyone. I don't want to participate in and enable their mental illness. And if they think "misgendering" is "hate", being "cisgendered" is no less hateful and insulting.
If this guy wasn't affirmed through butchery, he'd likely sound kooky, but he doubles down on the delusions so it's ultimately worse. He's seriously unsure of his own position because it changes and there's obviously no one telling him, hey, this is what you're saying and doing, so it's tougher than ever to see these folks as time goes on.
I have no idea how Mathilda’s boyfriend willingly has sex with that flesh pocket… I don’t get it. Of course Mathilda (and him) INSIST he is a straight man because he is dating A WOMAN!!!!
It’s so bizarre- I was recently told that I was an abusive mother by someone online after I described my son as being an effeminate boy who is now a gay man and thankfully has his healthy whole body in tact. I think he called me a Nazi too!??
In William Catton's book Overshoot, he writes about what happens when mammals overpopulate. One characteristic that seems to be prevalent now is that the care of the young becomes inept and casual. The online someone thinks being inept and casual is normal and being supportive and loving is abusive. One might almost feel sorry for such people except that they are full of poison and don't mind spewing it all over the landscape.
I do feel sorry for him. He's wrong about that. It's just I can't put his needs above women and so yes, I will joke and giggle sometimes because it's so depressing if I don't.
i got halfway through. i'm terminally bored. i don't enjoy listening to narcissists like this even if i feel sorry for their suffering. but he's spent ten minutes saying nothing. he does keep talking about wanting someone to truly care about him, and that seems the central focus. and that's terribly sad---and indicative that he needs therapy and friends. but he's done some horrific things to himself, doesn't acknowledge that he's seeking attention, claims he's just informing the public about this type of surgery, but then falls into avoidance language regarding what he's informing. there's no information. 'if you truly feel this surgery would change your life.' well obviously it will change anyone's life. the implication is, 'change it for the better,' but how can anyone know that, and how can M even begin to suggest it could possibly be ok to take the high risk of lifelong unfixable damage. he had a healthy body, now he's maimed. he refuses apparently to face this like an adult--just veers off into poor sparrow mode. btw, why does he speak in such an affected manner. i have seen very few of these tik-tokkers behave like adults. particularly the MtoFs are highly affected and narcissistic and sparrow-ish, while the FtoMs are angry, resentful. they're not great ads for what they claim to advertise for.
I feel that there's a loss of self loving in this generation that seems to be made worse through consumerism. I'm not saying previous generations didn't suffer, but this 21st century group is stunted, in a way. These guys do put me to sleep, though. They're either in victim mode and trying to explain how they aren't victims and trying to find others to be miserable with them, or telling other people how hurt they are...has anyone on these forums been in a relationship with these people? Narcissists are lonely, but you can't get close to them because they only love themselves.
I feel like people centered on themselves too much but since they often refuse the experience of doing shit for others they don't know what care actually is. There's a reason volunteer work gets people out of their heads. The self love is actually pretty high in this group, they can't imagine they're doing anything wrong at all and are laser focused on getting what they want, everyone else be damned along with them.
They put these videos out into the public touting for sympathy then get all offended and hurt if theres any criticism of their choices. Throwing out willy nilly accusations of hate and transphobia and reporting critical comments hoping to get women banned from social media. I do get outraged by misogyny and these trans pretenders demonstrate a great deal of hate towards the people who have the bodies they are trying to mimic.
There is no such thing as trans = changing sex. Troons would be better off investing their resources and freeing up health facilities to get appropriate therapy to help them become comfortable with their physical realities.
He says over and over he "had no choice " . That's why this whole movement is so insidious. He really believes this because then it allows him to sink further into the denial.
He had a choice. If he were stranded out in the middle of Somalia somewhere, then he could say he had no choice. But the thing is, if he really had no choice, he'd still be intact.
People wonder why unscrupulous politicians like George Santos tell the most obvious and egregious lies. They need look no further than the transcult for an answer. These people are, first and foremost, spectacular liars. They spend every day, all day, lying about their own basic biology and get offended if anyone around them dares tell the truth.
The whole culture is drunk on the poison of lies. These guys are just part of the mechanism that allows lying to be more and more socially acceptable.
I've just managed to drag myself off the compassionate path, Mary. Like, in the last few days I've decided, no more pity for these jerks. Your comment tugs at me.
Does he deny getting offered therapy? He's from Sweden so that's part of their minimum standard. He did this almost 10 years ago which means he started this more than 10 years ago when you include the lengthy surgery prep often requiring months of hair removal. End of last year he also said he's been on estrogen for 10 years so it's likely he was offered therapy and not offered affirmation-only therapy since that guideline wasn't necessarily the standard back then since it takes time to implement things from printing. Last three WPATH standards of care were put out 2000/2001 and then 2011/2012 and then last year. The 2000/2001 guidelines are likely what was in place which would have required a lot of therapy minimums. It's possible that his Swedish doctors skipped all the guidelines, but also if he claims he was offered no therapy that's not the same as it being unavailable as Sweden is not like the US when it comes to mental healthcare.
I love your line “trans pretenders demonstrate a great deal of hate towards the people who have the bodies they are trying to mimic “! The green monster is alive and well! And I’m out of fucks too!
He sounds like a mentally ill young man with quite childish ideas about good and evil. I find it frightening how many adults walk around with such a simplistic model of the world and of other people, which is not at all limited to trans people. I like how you broke down your motivations, I hope he sees this video. Somebody with this diminished capacity to make rational decisions should not have been approved for surgery. There is lots of circular reasoning and denial going on there, and sadness.
I feel sorry for him, of course I do. Due to his deeply embedded mental illness, which society has been affirming, he has allowed greedy people to have performed horrific mutilation on his body. He has had his genitals cut up, mashed up & a permanent wound left behind. His reproductive & urinary systems have been ruined.
At the same time, all of this is an insult to me & all women. Our bodies are being mimicked & fetishised. Our lives and individuality are being reduced to stereotypes.
And he is perpetuating all these abuses through his advertisements.
So sorry for him but far more important is raising awareness about what is being done to him and others
I never cease to be surprised how many kids are perched at the end of their beds, talking through a camera lens to the world about not just their innermost feelings (as much as they're able to reflect), but also about their innermost bodily (dys)functions. His convoluted way of saying, I don't like that you're commenting on what I have made public, is a clear indication of his mental state, which surgery does not seem to have improved. He's also angry with you and the world in general, because we all knew long ago what he knows now, too.
I'm interested to know what happens to people who are able to pay for these horrendous surgeries, but later in life no longer have the funds to afford the repairs.
The answer is in the statistics. The high rate of trans suicides does not take chronology into account. Trans people, in some studies, have been shown to have higher than usual suicide rates. The part of that statistical fact the trans lobby leaves out is the fact that their suicidal tendencies are not broken out by age or stage of transition. They are more likely, over their lifetimes, to kill themselves and I would argue it's because they reach the end of the surgical road, realize nothing has changed, have unendurable "complications" and decide to take the off ramp.
It will be interesting to observe Canada's MAID statistics in 20 years. I bet there will be a high percentage of post-op trans people. And I bet the trans lobby will use that statistic as proof that more people need more surgery at an earlier age. That's what they're doing right now and we, as a society, are swallowing that lie.
I mean, think about it; even if they did do a break-out by age, the fact that someone identifies as trans and has suicidal thoughts is going to result in a larger number of people who are trans reporting suicidal thoughts because they are claiming membership in a group that has, as one of its defining characteristics, suicidal thoughts.
For half of these teenagers, saying they have suicidal thoughts is a path to being trans. The statistics are ALWAYS going to show a bias.
another good point--------question. is there evidence that claiming self harm thoughts is part of the criteria for being accepted into the cool-kid teen trans cult? IOW, is self harm now a cool-kid thing to claim, even if in reality, you're not actually that depressed? that a kid can get status for this claim?
I graduated University in 2000. I was on the editorial board of our student newspaper. One of my protegees wanted to write an article about self-harm. There was an element of glamour to it even then.
I didn't want to run it, so we didn't. But we did spend a few weeks discussing the cool-kid credentials of students who did self-harm and how it linked to the pro-ana movement which was really flowering at the time.
People forget, we use turns of phrase like: "heroin chic" thinking only the adults are listening and assuming everyone understands the ironic qualities of such a description. The truth is, they don't. It was absolutely becoming fashionable to cut yourself with razor blades in little parallel lines when I was in school. It was also fashionable to stretch your ear lobes out by yourself, with those things that have holes in them, gauges? I'm not sure what they're called but I remember having a philosophy class with a kid named Ryan first thing in the morning, winter semester and man, I did everything I could not to have to look at Ryan with his weeping, bleeding, infected ears, with some kind of widening thing jammed into each one. And everyone pretending like it was fine.
There was not enough coffee on the whole campus to force me to do more than glance at Ryan. Nowadays, I experience similar feelings when I see young women doing the trans trend.
Some young people take the terms we through around as metaphors, like "heroin chic" and seek to embody them in ways that do not make sense to us but are implied within the term and the culture if you are the kind of inexperienced kid who takes things literally. As most kids do.
Now that will be tragic- again, when you’re 18-24(?) you never think about how life can and will go sideways. I’m sure they assume that insurance and or government will pay for them indefinitely. One of my favorite quotes is”life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans”!
And this prevents suicide? Years ago my aunt developed colitis- she was one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen but also one of the vainest too. She had 4 little girls but after living a short time with a colostomy bag and having to do everything required... she didn’t want it anymore and died!
I don't blame her. My wonderful cousin, a loving and vibrant man, just spent 3 months in the hospital to try to get his diverticulitis under control. He ended up losing 100 pounds and now has a colostomy. And an unhealed incision. And a PIC line. I will not be surprised if he shoots himself.
Well, I hope he doesn’t because even though my aunt didn’t shot herself, she may as well have by not going along with the treatment. She couldn’t imagine a life walking around with a bag attached to her and all that entails! It continues to blow my mind when I think of young men and women taking risks like this with the rest of their lives! Hope you’re doing well, Sonny!😜❤️
I know. People like Ryan Exulansic interviewed a while back. Ruined his life. I wonder the % of SRS surgeries that end up with colostomies, catheters, premature osteoporosis, etc. Thanks, I'm doing fine, hope you are too. ~~ Sonny.
What? You know this? I thought it was just uncomfortable and messy. You know? The way babies can poop all over themselves, right up to the small of their backs in a diaper and you wonder how on earth it got there. I just assumed there was a general lack of sphincter control, like babies, and once they got to the bathroom, it was just a generalized crotch mess. A bidet could fix that easily enough; wash and go. I didn't think the complications could be worse than that. What kind of doctor would perform surgery on a perfectly healthy body if they knew that was a possible complication?
Talk about ruining someone's quality of life. Isn't it bad enough they lose the ability to enjoy sex?
The faceless nature of a camera probably helps. It's probably why they're always so shocked when they get disagreement in even the calmest form, because they had no pushback at the time they practiced, scripted, recorded, and edited which is what real conversations offer.
I spent the day in bed, anyway I went to Mathilda’s channel and watched the entire video and then took a look at the comments. One after the other were telling him how horrible all of this “ugliness” is,how sorry they are for “her” pain,this hate must not be tolerated, how beautiful “she” is, how Terfs are all so jealous of “her” beauty and we all have miserable lives, “she” is saving lives... every sentence he uttered started with “I”, “me”... I had to hold myself back from commenting but I made sure to like the comments trying very nicely to explain to him what Exulansic’s message and motives are. ps, he didn’t “❤️” any of them- only the pretty, stunning and brave ones! Surprise!
I was called a hateful person who harasses Trans people this Wednesday. Why? Because I got on stage at an 8march votation event where almost 200 women get together to vote over the 8march banners,and stated that Trans women are men. I was booed off stage and told off by the meeting leaders. This is it. Norway is officially living in an Orwellian nightmare
Very ideologically controlled. The fight ain't over. Bergens one is february 7. Hope to see you in a march. I'm disabled so I can speak on anything, but let's hope that regular women can speak freely without fear of loosing their job, soon
TRAs try to redefine so many words that the words themselves become meaningless. If it is 'hate' to simply tell a male that he is male then what word can we use to express our feelings towards paedophiles or to those running concentration camps?
'Hate' is an extreme word for extreme situations. Using it for trivial stuff completely removes the power of the word.
I wonder how he describes his feelings about the people who created the Holocaust? Exactly the same as someone who correctly sexes him? Really?
Gallows humor is a very healthy response to unpleasant circumstances for a lot of people. I have a chronic illness and like many people with a chronic or severe illness I make black humor all the time about it. I’m super not interested in playing the victim. Matilda hasn’t it figured out that there’s no social upside to playing the victim.
Dear Exulansic, You've been rational and kind to these people. You've treated them as human beings who are equal to you. I think that's admirable. I think it also makes you a soft target for these young men.
They pick on you because you're safe and sometimes I wonder if that's a safe stance. Please be aware of the threats these young men pose and take precautions. That's all I wanted to say directly to you about this.
It's important to me that these young men know they are not safe with me. They will never be safe with me. I don't care how they've been hurt or wounded. Women have been hurt and wounded for centuries and no one had to step carefully around women's feelings. I'm fine with the fact that he's in pain. He got exactly what h asked for, I want men like this to be fully exposed for exactly who they are and if that results in public humiliation, fine.
He's absolutely right when he says some of us want him to disappear. I do. Every minute of public time and attention he consumes is taken away from a worthy cause or a person who has something valuable to contribute to society. But the thing is, he won't disappear because if he did, he would sometimes pass for female and he'd have to live like we live. He wouldn't get the attention or the money he gets from being a public victim.
Now, to Mathilde or whatever your name is, I say this: Dude, disappear. Do us all a favor and just vanish. You've proven a point. No one needs to see you anymore. Your channel is redundant. Spare your own feelings, wallow in your own sorrow, stop turning yourself into a public spectacle. Your side-show window is no longer interesting. Delete your channel. Go away.
exactly yes. this i think is a kind of accepted concept in substance recovery work, that people freeze in development at the age they start using. i know a couple men in their 60s who started drinking as teens and now not drinking but struggling to get beyond young-man mindset.
indeed where are the parents.
I'm all out of patience with these people calling anyone who doesn't agree with them "transphobic" (transphobia: fear of the transmob) and hateful. How can people put details of their private lives out there for the world to see if they don't want people to comment on it! "Feel free to comment, but only love and praise, please."
So tired of this cult imposing their delusional baggage on everyone. I don't want to participate in and enable their mental illness. And if they think "misgendering" is "hate", being "cisgendered" is no less hateful and insulting.
If this guy wasn't affirmed through butchery, he'd likely sound kooky, but he doubles down on the delusions so it's ultimately worse. He's seriously unsure of his own position because it changes and there's obviously no one telling him, hey, this is what you're saying and doing, so it's tougher than ever to see these folks as time goes on.
I have no idea how Mathilda’s boyfriend willingly has sex with that flesh pocket… I don’t get it. Of course Mathilda (and him) INSIST he is a straight man because he is dating A WOMAN!!!!
🙄
My thoughts exactly! If words have so much meaning ( and they do) then transphobic is all wrong and cis is then also hateful!
Words have lost their meaning and rules of grammar, too. For example, pretty, prettier, prettiest. For them it’s transphobe, terf, Nazi.
It’s so bizarre- I was recently told that I was an abusive mother by someone online after I described my son as being an effeminate boy who is now a gay man and thankfully has his healthy whole body in tact. I think he called me a Nazi too!??
In William Catton's book Overshoot, he writes about what happens when mammals overpopulate. One characteristic that seems to be prevalent now is that the care of the young becomes inept and casual. The online someone thinks being inept and casual is normal and being supportive and loving is abusive. One might almost feel sorry for such people except that they are full of poison and don't mind spewing it all over the landscape.
Susan, “one MIGHT” but not me!
so that's total homophobia.
I think so too!
Ditto.
I do feel sorry for him. He's wrong about that. It's just I can't put his needs above women and so yes, I will joke and giggle sometimes because it's so depressing if I don't.
My mottos has always been, "we laugh so we dont cry"
i got halfway through. i'm terminally bored. i don't enjoy listening to narcissists like this even if i feel sorry for their suffering. but he's spent ten minutes saying nothing. he does keep talking about wanting someone to truly care about him, and that seems the central focus. and that's terribly sad---and indicative that he needs therapy and friends. but he's done some horrific things to himself, doesn't acknowledge that he's seeking attention, claims he's just informing the public about this type of surgery, but then falls into avoidance language regarding what he's informing. there's no information. 'if you truly feel this surgery would change your life.' well obviously it will change anyone's life. the implication is, 'change it for the better,' but how can anyone know that, and how can M even begin to suggest it could possibly be ok to take the high risk of lifelong unfixable damage. he had a healthy body, now he's maimed. he refuses apparently to face this like an adult--just veers off into poor sparrow mode. btw, why does he speak in such an affected manner. i have seen very few of these tik-tokkers behave like adults. particularly the MtoFs are highly affected and narcissistic and sparrow-ish, while the FtoMs are angry, resentful. they're not great ads for what they claim to advertise for.
I feel that there's a loss of self loving in this generation that seems to be made worse through consumerism. I'm not saying previous generations didn't suffer, but this 21st century group is stunted, in a way. These guys do put me to sleep, though. They're either in victim mode and trying to explain how they aren't victims and trying to find others to be miserable with them, or telling other people how hurt they are...has anyone on these forums been in a relationship with these people? Narcissists are lonely, but you can't get close to them because they only love themselves.
I feel like people centered on themselves too much but since they often refuse the experience of doing shit for others they don't know what care actually is. There's a reason volunteer work gets people out of their heads. The self love is actually pretty high in this group, they can't imagine they're doing anything wrong at all and are laser focused on getting what they want, everyone else be damned along with them.
Misery loves company.
Spot on!
They're all acting out exaggerated stereotypes. Nobody acts like that.
I just reread your comment- it’s so good!
You hate this person so much you want to save them? What? None of this even holds up as internal logic.
Totally out of fucks.
They put these videos out into the public touting for sympathy then get all offended and hurt if theres any criticism of their choices. Throwing out willy nilly accusations of hate and transphobia and reporting critical comments hoping to get women banned from social media. I do get outraged by misogyny and these trans pretenders demonstrate a great deal of hate towards the people who have the bodies they are trying to mimic.
There is no such thing as trans = changing sex. Troons would be better off investing their resources and freeing up health facilities to get appropriate therapy to help them become comfortable with their physical realities.
He says over and over he "had no choice " . That's why this whole movement is so insidious. He really believes this because then it allows him to sink further into the denial.
He had a choice. If he were stranded out in the middle of Somalia somewhere, then he could say he had no choice. But the thing is, if he really had no choice, he'd still be intact.
People wonder why unscrupulous politicians like George Santos tell the most obvious and egregious lies. They need look no further than the transcult for an answer. These people are, first and foremost, spectacular liars. They spend every day, all day, lying about their own basic biology and get offended if anyone around them dares tell the truth.
The whole culture is drunk on the poison of lies. These guys are just part of the mechanism that allows lying to be more and more socially acceptable.
👏👏👏
he wasn't offered, or refused, therapy. that's where we explore feelings and choices.
I've just managed to drag myself off the compassionate path, Mary. Like, in the last few days I've decided, no more pity for these jerks. Your comment tugs at me.
damn, conflicted feelings.
Does he deny getting offered therapy? He's from Sweden so that's part of their minimum standard. He did this almost 10 years ago which means he started this more than 10 years ago when you include the lengthy surgery prep often requiring months of hair removal. End of last year he also said he's been on estrogen for 10 years so it's likely he was offered therapy and not offered affirmation-only therapy since that guideline wasn't necessarily the standard back then since it takes time to implement things from printing. Last three WPATH standards of care were put out 2000/2001 and then 2011/2012 and then last year. The 2000/2001 guidelines are likely what was in place which would have required a lot of therapy minimums. It's possible that his Swedish doctors skipped all the guidelines, but also if he claims he was offered no therapy that's not the same as it being unavailable as Sweden is not like the US when it comes to mental healthcare.
I love your line “trans pretenders demonstrate a great deal of hate towards the people who have the bodies they are trying to mimic “! The green monster is alive and well! And I’m out of fucks too!
yes, key point.
He sounds like a mentally ill young man with quite childish ideas about good and evil. I find it frightening how many adults walk around with such a simplistic model of the world and of other people, which is not at all limited to trans people. I like how you broke down your motivations, I hope he sees this video. Somebody with this diminished capacity to make rational decisions should not have been approved for surgery. There is lots of circular reasoning and denial going on there, and sadness.
I feel sorry for him, of course I do. Due to his deeply embedded mental illness, which society has been affirming, he has allowed greedy people to have performed horrific mutilation on his body. He has had his genitals cut up, mashed up & a permanent wound left behind. His reproductive & urinary systems have been ruined.
At the same time, all of this is an insult to me & all women. Our bodies are being mimicked & fetishised. Our lives and individuality are being reduced to stereotypes.
And he is perpetuating all these abuses through his advertisements.
So sorry for him but far more important is raising awareness about what is being done to him and others
Thank you, Exulansic.
I never cease to be surprised how many kids are perched at the end of their beds, talking through a camera lens to the world about not just their innermost feelings (as much as they're able to reflect), but also about their innermost bodily (dys)functions. His convoluted way of saying, I don't like that you're commenting on what I have made public, is a clear indication of his mental state, which surgery does not seem to have improved. He's also angry with you and the world in general, because we all knew long ago what he knows now, too.
I'm interested to know what happens to people who are able to pay for these horrendous surgeries, but later in life no longer have the funds to afford the repairs.
The answer is in the statistics. The high rate of trans suicides does not take chronology into account. Trans people, in some studies, have been shown to have higher than usual suicide rates. The part of that statistical fact the trans lobby leaves out is the fact that their suicidal tendencies are not broken out by age or stage of transition. They are more likely, over their lifetimes, to kill themselves and I would argue it's because they reach the end of the surgical road, realize nothing has changed, have unendurable "complications" and decide to take the off ramp.
It will be interesting to observe Canada's MAID statistics in 20 years. I bet there will be a high percentage of post-op trans people. And I bet the trans lobby will use that statistic as proof that more people need more surgery at an earlier age. That's what they're doing right now and we, as a society, are swallowing that lie.
Short answer? state assisted suicide.
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-45117163
I mean, think about it; even if they did do a break-out by age, the fact that someone identifies as trans and has suicidal thoughts is going to result in a larger number of people who are trans reporting suicidal thoughts because they are claiming membership in a group that has, as one of its defining characteristics, suicidal thoughts.
For half of these teenagers, saying they have suicidal thoughts is a path to being trans. The statistics are ALWAYS going to show a bias.
another good point--------question. is there evidence that claiming self harm thoughts is part of the criteria for being accepted into the cool-kid teen trans cult? IOW, is self harm now a cool-kid thing to claim, even if in reality, you're not actually that depressed? that a kid can get status for this claim?
I graduated University in 2000. I was on the editorial board of our student newspaper. One of my protegees wanted to write an article about self-harm. There was an element of glamour to it even then.
I didn't want to run it, so we didn't. But we did spend a few weeks discussing the cool-kid credentials of students who did self-harm and how it linked to the pro-ana movement which was really flowering at the time.
People forget, we use turns of phrase like: "heroin chic" thinking only the adults are listening and assuming everyone understands the ironic qualities of such a description. The truth is, they don't. It was absolutely becoming fashionable to cut yourself with razor blades in little parallel lines when I was in school. It was also fashionable to stretch your ear lobes out by yourself, with those things that have holes in them, gauges? I'm not sure what they're called but I remember having a philosophy class with a kid named Ryan first thing in the morning, winter semester and man, I did everything I could not to have to look at Ryan with his weeping, bleeding, infected ears, with some kind of widening thing jammed into each one. And everyone pretending like it was fine.
There was not enough coffee on the whole campus to force me to do more than glance at Ryan. Nowadays, I experience similar feelings when I see young women doing the trans trend.
Some young people take the terms we through around as metaphors, like "heroin chic" and seek to embody them in ways that do not make sense to us but are implied within the term and the culture if you are the kind of inexperienced kid who takes things literally. As most kids do.
Now that will be tragic- again, when you’re 18-24(?) you never think about how life can and will go sideways. I’m sure they assume that insurance and or government will pay for them indefinitely. One of my favorite quotes is”life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans”!
They wear disposeable gloves to dig out their poop and have catheters to pee. Great lifestyle!
And this prevents suicide? Years ago my aunt developed colitis- she was one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen but also one of the vainest too. She had 4 little girls but after living a short time with a colostomy bag and having to do everything required... she didn’t want it anymore and died!
I don't blame her. My wonderful cousin, a loving and vibrant man, just spent 3 months in the hospital to try to get his diverticulitis under control. He ended up losing 100 pounds and now has a colostomy. And an unhealed incision. And a PIC line. I will not be surprised if he shoots himself.
Well, I hope he doesn’t because even though my aunt didn’t shot herself, she may as well have by not going along with the treatment. She couldn’t imagine a life walking around with a bag attached to her and all that entails! It continues to blow my mind when I think of young men and women taking risks like this with the rest of their lives! Hope you’re doing well, Sonny!😜❤️
I know. People like Ryan Exulansic interviewed a while back. Ruined his life. I wonder the % of SRS surgeries that end up with colostomies, catheters, premature osteoporosis, etc. Thanks, I'm doing fine, hope you are too. ~~ Sonny.
What? You know this? I thought it was just uncomfortable and messy. You know? The way babies can poop all over themselves, right up to the small of their backs in a diaper and you wonder how on earth it got there. I just assumed there was a general lack of sphincter control, like babies, and once they got to the bathroom, it was just a generalized crotch mess. A bidet could fix that easily enough; wash and go. I didn't think the complications could be worse than that. What kind of doctor would perform surgery on a perfectly healthy body if they knew that was a possible complication?
Talk about ruining someone's quality of life. Isn't it bad enough they lose the ability to enjoy sex?
The faceless nature of a camera probably helps. It's probably why they're always so shocked when they get disagreement in even the calmest form, because they had no pushback at the time they practiced, scripted, recorded, and edited which is what real conversations offer.
I spent the day in bed, anyway I went to Mathilda’s channel and watched the entire video and then took a look at the comments. One after the other were telling him how horrible all of this “ugliness” is,how sorry they are for “her” pain,this hate must not be tolerated, how beautiful “she” is, how Terfs are all so jealous of “her” beauty and we all have miserable lives, “she” is saving lives... every sentence he uttered started with “I”, “me”... I had to hold myself back from commenting but I made sure to like the comments trying very nicely to explain to him what Exulansic’s message and motives are. ps, he didn’t “❤️” any of them- only the pretty, stunning and brave ones! Surprise!
I was called a hateful person who harasses Trans people this Wednesday. Why? Because I got on stage at an 8march votation event where almost 200 women get together to vote over the 8march banners,and stated that Trans women are men. I was booed off stage and told off by the meeting leaders. This is it. Norway is officially living in an Orwellian nightmare
BRAVA to you for having the courage to state the truth!👏👏❤️
Thank you for doing that! It makes it easier for others to speak out and easier for these deluded people to gradually see the reality.
Well done!! I'm in Norway too and I have been wondering about the March 8th banner slogans this year ...
Very ideologically controlled. The fight ain't over. Bergens one is february 7. Hope to see you in a march. I'm disabled so I can speak on anything, but let's hope that regular women can speak freely without fear of loosing their job, soon
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thank you for doing this work.
TRAs try to redefine so many words that the words themselves become meaningless. If it is 'hate' to simply tell a male that he is male then what word can we use to express our feelings towards paedophiles or to those running concentration camps?
'Hate' is an extreme word for extreme situations. Using it for trivial stuff completely removes the power of the word.
I wonder how he describes his feelings about the people who created the Holocaust? Exactly the same as someone who correctly sexes him? Really?
TRAs are bastardising our language.
In EVERY WAY!
just like 'pro life' for 'forced pregnancy.' 'MAID' for 'no quality medical treatment and adequate accessible housing for you.'
They really do think that have feelings cancer! You can't make fun of him if you wouldn't make jokes about cancer? Wow.
He's only got 60 years to live!
Lol poor guy
Dysphoria cured and suicide prevented I guess.
Gallows humor is a very healthy response to unpleasant circumstances for a lot of people. I have a chronic illness and like many people with a chronic or severe illness I make black humor all the time about it. I’m super not interested in playing the victim. Matilda hasn’t it figured out that there’s no social upside to playing the victim.
So true- I laugh at myself all the time- Mathilda should try it!
"When I make jokes its so people will keep watching because the subject matter is horrific"
The jokes are the sugar that helps the medicine of knowledge of these nightmarish and predictable surgery results go down!!!
Dear Exulansic, You've been rational and kind to these people. You've treated them as human beings who are equal to you. I think that's admirable. I think it also makes you a soft target for these young men.
They pick on you because you're safe and sometimes I wonder if that's a safe stance. Please be aware of the threats these young men pose and take precautions. That's all I wanted to say directly to you about this.
It's important to me that these young men know they are not safe with me. They will never be safe with me. I don't care how they've been hurt or wounded. Women have been hurt and wounded for centuries and no one had to step carefully around women's feelings. I'm fine with the fact that he's in pain. He got exactly what h asked for, I want men like this to be fully exposed for exactly who they are and if that results in public humiliation, fine.
He's absolutely right when he says some of us want him to disappear. I do. Every minute of public time and attention he consumes is taken away from a worthy cause or a person who has something valuable to contribute to society. But the thing is, he won't disappear because if he did, he would sometimes pass for female and he'd have to live like we live. He wouldn't get the attention or the money he gets from being a public victim.
Now, to Mathilde or whatever your name is, I say this: Dude, disappear. Do us all a favor and just vanish. You've proven a point. No one needs to see you anymore. Your channel is redundant. Spare your own feelings, wallow in your own sorrow, stop turning yourself into a public spectacle. Your side-show window is no longer interesting. Delete your channel. Go away.
hes starting to realize that he does regret it. i can see it, its really sad. he must be hurting very deeply.
Not deeply enough to sit down and shut up.