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Louise R's avatar

Viewing some of your videos should be required for young people and their mentally ill parents.

The very idea of these mutilating, life-destroying surgeries should raise everybody's hair. And I hope the Trump administration can get rid of the "medically necessary" nonsense of mandating insurance coverage for this madness. RFK Jr., are you paying attention?

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joolzzt's avatar

The problem is that young people don't have much perspective, and they convince themselves that these complications only happen to other people. They swallow the trans propaganda. They don't do due diligence and find out the facts first, and doctors who are after their money gloss over potential complications because they care more about money than people.

TRAs criticise those who expose the truth because they want more and more people to transition, and if people were fully aware of the truth, then they would seek alternatives. That's why Ex's videos are so important, although I doubt that those who need them most would actually sit and watch them.

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Louise R's avatar

If this ever becomes a federal issue, I would hope that graphic pictures and video testimonials are shown before Congress. People just don't know the full horror of this.

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North Country's avatar

And the Supreme Court should be made to look at this business.

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Louise R's avatar

Excellent idea!

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trudie63's avatar

Loss of bladder control is one of the worst things and embarrassing things that can happen to a person, it leads to many many complications for other organs. It is so sad that this idiot did not do research before he decided to mutilate himself.

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joolzzt's avatar

These operations are creating frankenstein parts. He may think that everything is hunky dory now, but I expect that as he ages and as his weight fluctuates over time, his body won't be able to cope with the changes needed and things will go awry.

These people are setting themselves up for more problems as they age and the skin loosens and muscles become weaker. We will end up with a lot of bedridden incontinent, men in nighties taking up valuable beds in hospitals. Beds that would be better used by those who didn't mutilate themselves.

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Ute Heggen's avatar

And the effect of estrogen on the male body includes weakening of the pelvic floor. Male detransitioners who didn't have surgery but were on estrogen report "pee leaks" from the estrogen.

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Anne Martinez's avatar

God. I (female) had surgery on/around my urethral opening area when I was 16 (don't ask me why, but it was 1996 and this wasn't for some sort of gender affirmation) and that first time peeing was the worst pain I'd been in, basically peeing blood, but you can't... like... not pee ever. That was 30 years ago and that memory still stands out.

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Ute Heggen's avatar

Listen, Ex, you are going to have a hard time topping this one. I cannot believe how many times I laughed out loud during this horrible description! "Like missing a tooth," . . . right, like returning to your 6 year old self. Such self-delusion. I really wish I could have Neddy (my female identifying ex husband) strapped into a chair, eyelids taped open, to watch this on a repeat loop. Just, yikes.

Btw, when a woman has a fibroid, it can shift and cause her to be unable to urinate. Often this results in an emergency hysterectomy.

When he reads this, he'll say he regards this as his emergency hysterectomy, proving he's

"a woman."

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Meg's avatar

I still cannot comprehend ever doing something voluntarily, that I did not actually need medically, that would jeopardize my ability to urinate normally.

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Violet Violence's avatar

You know what I wasn't gonna but I am now. I'm just gonna go pee right now. For fun. Funzies! I literally can pee freely. TERFs are undefeated! 🤘😄🤘

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Kristine Roser's avatar

I just read all the fantastic comments everyone made. They said what I was thinking, but more articulately than I could have said. Any one and every one who contemplates having these mutilations should see Ex's posts first. Then and only then will your consent be truly 'informed'. Also, the gleeful manner in which these horrors are related by this man is frightening. And yes, Louise R, RFK should take note.

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Íris Erlingsdóttir's avatar

Yes, I should have thought about just saying I'M A LUXURY CITIZEN ("trans") and entitled to ANY drugs I WANT! instead of pointing out their own diagnoses to my doctors. https://open.substack.com/pub/irislee/p/i-miss-my-fentanyl-a14?r=h9qg8&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false

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just another human(ist)'s avatar

I love that When In Rome's "The Promise" was playing in that graphic that explains how catheterization works. lmaoooo. So random.

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Ms No's avatar

This is just really, really, unfathomably sad. This is what happens when therapy is focused on accommodating delusions rather than encouraging acceptance.

I think so many of these young people have control issues and want to mould the whole world around them rather than understanding that our control in life is limited, and there are some things we just have to come to terms with. You can't fight biology and you can't fight physics. Reality is infinitely bigger than you and it's always going to win if you challenge it.

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Autonoe's avatar

Imagine how traumatizing that was for his parents, the anguish of witnessing their child in such pain after surgeons maimed him. Once, they brought him home from the hospital as a newborn. How would they have responded, if someone looked into the future and told them? “One day, they’ll do this to your son. He will say he needs it and you will bring him home from the hospital in tatters. The doctors will say he consented, that he was in his right mind.”

No wonder we can’t respond to China’s industrial-scale organ harvesting. Our own healthcare system is in the grips of a mass hysteria that would have made Salem shudder.

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Emma P33L's avatar

this mental child is describing physical horrors like a young adult comic book.

oopsie! guess what happened! what an Adventure!

all while crazy eyes popping out. he looks like he was also put on puberty blockers so he's not internally developed.

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Joseph Montenegro's avatar

🤦🏻‍♂️

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