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North Country's avatar

I wonder if she’s still with her husband…I wonder how her daughter is turning out…I wonder if she has a job…I wonder how much she has cost the taxpayers…

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Barekicks's avatar

She's wearing the scrub from her job in the car isn't she? I think she's mentioned before that she's a care worker

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North Country's avatar

I haven’t followed her story for a while, the last I knew was that she made and hoped to sell jewelry.

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Terri Aqui's avatar

Great point about trying to use tips and tricks to seem more like the sex you want to be…if you are really inherently that sex you shouldn’t have to use tips and tricks to be it.

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Ute Heggen's avatar

Is this the woman in Michigan whose baby we're concerned about? She has no idea whether she "passes" in others' minds. The public demands of "affirmation" are such that no woman like her could possibly know if she gives an impression of male sex. When we know what the "tells" are, perceiving the biological sex is immediate and consistent. I imagine the ugly tattoo on her neck is supposed to give the impression that she has an Adam's apple. Just sad.

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Theceilinghasmefloored's avatar

She will always be a woman!

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Deadladyofclowntown's avatar

She still presents as totally femme to me. I wonder how her poor baby daughter is doing? I still worry about that child. Probably a toddler by now -- I wonder if she can even walk?

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Yvette N's avatar

She walks and talks. I worry more about BPD than other things.

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Deadladyofclowntown's avatar

She even talks! Good! I really hope she isn't somehow disabled, mentally or physically; it seems nearly impossible for her to avoid something like that, given the drugs her mother was taking when she got pregnant. Not to mention growing up in the care of that mother! But I hope for the best.

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Yvette N's avatar

I hope for the best, too. Kids are pretty resilient.

Really, I worry more about her mother's disconnection and BPD. That really leaves a mark. I don't know where dad is, or if he's any better off.

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Kristine Roser's avatar

What a great relief to hear Exulansic's voice of utter clarity. Her perception is crystal clear on these matters. Elleot is endlessly postponing her interior development; that is why people should reflect the truth to her, as Ex has always done, so maybe if she ever sees her true reflection, she can start the difficult, painful process of real self-development, which has rewards. I wish her good luck with this!

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crazy fucking female's avatar

to prevent any meaningful insight that might prompt them to change, i imagine a trans person must invoke the contrapositive: “if i had not transitioned, then my dysphoria would be so much worse than it currently is. (and the only reason my dysphoria is still this bad is because i am not being sufficiently enabled by the people around me.)”

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Íris Erlingsdóttir's avatar

Dear Exulansic, I want to say (what I said on X) that I am happy to gift to you the Jazz Jennings shows; let me know, you have my email. Also, I am very interested in your take on the recent HHSGov report: “The gender clinic model of care [is] a Maslow’s hammer to which every problem appears as a nail.” I hope you are well, and please let us know if you need any $upport. opa.hhs.gov/gender-dysphor…

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