OMG, another great title!! Who does this woman think she's fooling? Girl hair, girl makeup, girl jewelry, girl voice and body. And what a sweater! My Grandmother would have loved it...
Another tragedy. I'd like to think she'll eventually get the help she needs, but in her mind everyone else is the problem. She might have a total breakdown once reality sets in. If that happens I hope she hasn't pushed everyone in real life away. Still, she's continuing to glorify her funky tranzzz lifestyle, so my interest in her well-being goes only so far...
'Run faster'? So she accepts that males aren't the same as women so shouldn't be in women's sport.
'Be able to train at night and go for walks myself'? Delusional. Transmen get raped - because they are women. She is clearly female. Any predator seeing her walking alone at night will know instantly that she is female. I truly hope she isn't stupid enough to let her guard down because she thinks she is now immune to male violence.
And I hate to tell her this, but males also are prey to male violence. When Julian Vigo did a deconstruction of who was most likely to be murdered in Canada, MEN were the most likely to be murdered (trans was last). I knew a beautiful gay man in Washington, DC, who had been raped, and he was not small or slight. A Vietnam vet I know saw another male recruit being raped when he got to boot camp. So not only do women need to band together, anyone who might be prey to male violence needs to make common cause.
The only kind of male violence women are more likely to experience is sexual violence. Otherwise, males are more likely to experience male violence. And that has a lot to do with women's superior judgment, women's avoidance of dangerous situations, and the fact that women don't typically start fights with men, and men also are culturally encouraged to be reluctant to start non-sexual fights with women.
I thought this: she's hasn't magically exited the class of petite, feminine-looking people a violent man will prey on by calling herself something different or having a flatter chest. She's still as vulnerable as any of us, and I don't say this to be cruel or threatening, because I hate that women like us have to worry about that strange dude following is at night, but she's dangerously delusional if she thinks she's any safer now than she was before she 'transitioned'. A violent man looking at her sees the same potential victim.
She seems insufferable. But you are right, what happens when she wakes up and finds out that she has been groomed by this older man and caused irreversible damage to herself? Really awful. I bet her parents feel terrible.
A week or so ago, I said that another girl was likely to lose her boyfriend once the "top surgery" was done and he realizes that he does like breasts, after all. Sadly the most likely time for a woman to lose her husband is right after mastectomy for cancer. Breasts are a primary sexual signal in humans and the heuristic is too strong for too many males. We're going to see a lot of this: guys who are totally on board with their girlfriends "becoming men" until they have flat chests, and then the guys bail, because it turns out their male humanity has not changed. I hate this sick fad.
Yeah, well, since “regret” is a forbidden word in The Church, of course it comes out to “1%” on paper. I mean, she obviously grew up being gaslight, and now she’s gaslighting herself and everyone else. Very sad. Reality does suck, but it’s worse to be living in La La Land, like this unfortunate soul.
Wait, this is that insufferable young woman from that earlier video. This is going to be painful to watch. I just turned it off after exactly one minute (which was only a few seconds after Cal showed up). If I do watch the rest, it would be only because of my great devotion to all content that Exulansic publishes. If you end up publishing a transcription, I'll probably read that, instead, because it will be less painful.
Being in the minority makes you really important and you should be immediately given everything you think you want, regardless of impact on others because you’re a marginalised, oppressed minority. Detrans are just a minority though, unimportant, ignore them. How many do they have to be before they become an important minority? A majority?
I am reminded of the well-established psychological mechanism, in which the value one assigns to an experience or possession is proportional to how much stress one has to suffer in the course of said experience or attainment of said possession. It is the basis of hazing rituals, cult initiations, military inductions, etc…and this is no different. The idea that one may have experienced traumatic stress on the basis of questionable justifications produces such cognitive dissonance that the individual must accordingly increase their perceived value of the experience or attainment accordingly, such that the more ludicrous and unfounded the reasons given as justification, the more fervent will be the belief in their worthiness.
This is really interesting. I tend to put these things in their own little boxes. I keep forgetting about all the overlapping social habits and psychological mechanisms that are in play all the time. Thank you for bringing that up.
She looks like she comes from material security so I feel sorry for her family members who likely will have to pick up her pieces when she finally crashes and burns. (She probably won’t have to become a homeless sex worker.) Years ago, her family would have been able to place her in a secure facility for treatment before the breast surgeries.
Do you want recipes, dear? We'll cheer you on with the cooking projects. Also, this girl is classically beautiful in a female way, and was probably uncomfortable with male attention since she was maybe, 10 years old. Her voice isn't so awful, does that mean at least, that she's not taking testosterone? Such a shame. She's a pretty good mover, based on that one clip, and she could have been an active, strong female role model to active, strong girls. As the men I know say about females like her, so sad. Guys do not consider her part of their club.
Yeah, it’s funny how she talks about not wanting unwanted male attention and thinks that means she’s not really a woman. Does she think women want unwanted attention? I guess that’s what being engrossed in TikTok and Instagram makes you believe...
Apparently she's a big-time hiker (and has claimed the title of first non-binary person to through-hike some long trail), so she is strong and active. It also seems like she doesn't post too much when she's out on the trail, so hopefully now that a-hole boyfriend is gone, she'll get back outside and off of TikTok. Too late to avoid surgery though.
And being a hiker, it makes so much sense that she'd be looking for safety walking alone in the world. She might have the attack on Claudia Brenner and Rebecca Wight on the Appalachian Trail in the 80's on her mind (Wight died, Brenner was badly hurt but survived and wrote a book about it: https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Bullets-Surviving-Anti-Gay-Violence/dp/1563410559). Instead of transitioning, she could put her efforts into creating safer hiking environments for women. But that's kinda the NB M.O.: bail out of feminism and only think of yourself. "You can stay female, suckers! I'm outta here!"
I'm like 2 minutes in and already furious. It's NOT "better" to be a boy. It's just different. Puberty is a nightmare, and given that women DO have so many constraints (although certainly less now than ever before in Western countries), I understand this childish thought process. I even had it a bit myself. It took me a long time to appreciate being a woman. But women have our own special power, our own place, our own strengths that are different but no less awesome than men. It sucks that the trans movement seeks to diminish and erase women so thoroughly, and it's infuriating to see women buy into this shit and go "yeah, women suck, I don't want to be one" Fuck that. Women are amazing. Being a woman is amazing. Sure, not all the time, but it can't possibly be awesome to be a man all the time, either.
I'm saying this because I believe it to be true: EVERY LITTLE GIRL wishes she were a boy at one point or another. If it's not right at puberty, it's sooner. For me, it was when I was 6 and wanted nothing more than to race bikes with the boys in the neighborhood all day and climb on people's garage roofs and explore abandoned houses when I wasn't racing my bike. (and scraping my knees to the point where my father actually made a comment about my making myself unfit for marriage because my knees were so deeply scarred.)
We all go through it. Every last one of us. Most of us are level headed enough to get through it understanding that there are certain parameters in life that cannot be changed. Some are foolish and selfish enough to think they can mold the world around their wishes.
Blame Disney, blame permissive parents and the everyone-is-a-winner culture we've created, or just blame the zeitgeist. Hell, maybe it's narcissism brought on by an urge to self-destruct that nature has programmed into humanity to cull the herd when the population gets too big for the planet, like whales beaching themselves. I don't know, I don't care. All I know is it happens to every one of us. We just deal with it, unlike these self-obsessed loons.
I'm going to say this to you once, and then we're never going to speak again.
I was a preschool teacher, an early childhood educator, a supervising instructor in early childhood education facilities. I've taught first year university students and I have worked in a group home.
If you honestly think, there was never one moment in your life when you wished you could do the things the boys could do, then you have a memory problem that cannot be addressed here, or you are lying to protect a fragile sense of self.
Either way., I don't appreciate the attack and I don't believe you. If I knew how to block someone on this platform, I would block you now. I have don't have any time or any inclination to talk to people who can't cope with the well documented facts of human development. I don't have time to teach you and I don't like your tone.
I hope that's clear. If you think I sound snide or harsh or condescending, I just want to affirm that impression. I'm not trying to be nice to you. I'm not even actually talking to you. addressing a personal slight with a personal smack back, along with some real, hard, objectively verifiable data for the benefit of anyone who might feel like defending their enduring lady-feels to the point of sounding hysterical is a good idea. It's not a good idea. Do the research. It's normal for girls to wish away the limitations of being female in this patriarchal culture. It's abnormal to claim you never had any kind of thought or feeling that might be even slightly divergent from the patriarchal template laid out for women. That is not normal. That is not healthy.
YOU are the problem, projecting your own feelings onto others and denying others their own feelings.
Their enduring lady-feels? When the fuck was I ever a lady? I'm a strong, fierce woman and I don't allow anyone to tell me what I am, what I experienced. I had a fierce mother for a role model and that's the best thing any girl can wish for. Why in hell would I want to be an inferior being for even one second?
Actually I *never* wanted to be a boy. I remember thinking they were odd creatures, even pitiable sometimes. At 13 I realized girls were glad to be girls, and boys very glad to be boys, and that was a good thing. It was inbuilt, nature’s way of helping us live comfortably as we are. Those few who didn’t have this mechanism would be in for a very hard time indeed.
Wishing you had a few properties of the other, like running faster (lots of girls re: many boys), or liking fashion more than trucks (a few boys re: what girls seem to do), isn’t the same as wanting to entirely BE the other—just to enjoy that trait or fit in with some group, any group.
I do however wonder if something on this order has changed, whether owing to chemicals in the environment, or planet level stress from overpopulation, or who-knows.
I never wished I had any properties boys seemed to possess! I chased my boy neighbor up a tree because he was annoying me, and I broke the stick another boy was trying to hit me and my best friend with. So boys looked weak to me, and I have endless sympathies with girls who were forced to be "feminine" and boys who were forced to be "masculine."
Gender roles seem to be increasingly rigid. I think as males seem increasingly unnecessary -- how many men outside of a place such as rural Maine do manly things? -- we will see genderism become worse and worse. As men get weaker and more incompetent (if a dude could hang a picture on a wall in NYC he was seen as a real handy guy), women will have to become ever sillier in order to provide a contrast.
OMG, another great title!! Who does this woman think she's fooling? Girl hair, girl makeup, girl jewelry, girl voice and body. And what a sweater! My Grandmother would have loved it...
My first LOL of the day! That sweater! I don't think my grandma would have been caught dead in it!
And I should have mentioned she was born in 1888.
Another tragedy. I'd like to think she'll eventually get the help she needs, but in her mind everyone else is the problem. She might have a total breakdown once reality sets in. If that happens I hope she hasn't pushed everyone in real life away. Still, she's continuing to glorify her funky tranzzz lifestyle, so my interest in her well-being goes only so far...
She’s so far in denial that she thinks it’s just a river in Egypt.
Trying odyssey put but not successful. Dinner looks good.
'Run faster'? So she accepts that males aren't the same as women so shouldn't be in women's sport.
'Be able to train at night and go for walks myself'? Delusional. Transmen get raped - because they are women. She is clearly female. Any predator seeing her walking alone at night will know instantly that she is female. I truly hope she isn't stupid enough to let her guard down because she thinks she is now immune to male violence.
And I hate to tell her this, but males also are prey to male violence. When Julian Vigo did a deconstruction of who was most likely to be murdered in Canada, MEN were the most likely to be murdered (trans was last). I knew a beautiful gay man in Washington, DC, who had been raped, and he was not small or slight. A Vietnam vet I know saw another male recruit being raped when he got to boot camp. So not only do women need to band together, anyone who might be prey to male violence needs to make common cause.
The only kind of male violence women are more likely to experience is sexual violence. Otherwise, males are more likely to experience male violence. And that has a lot to do with women's superior judgment, women's avoidance of dangerous situations, and the fact that women don't typically start fights with men, and men also are culturally encouraged to be reluctant to start non-sexual fights with women.
I thought this: she's hasn't magically exited the class of petite, feminine-looking people a violent man will prey on by calling herself something different or having a flatter chest. She's still as vulnerable as any of us, and I don't say this to be cruel or threatening, because I hate that women like us have to worry about that strange dude following is at night, but she's dangerously delusional if she thinks she's any safer now than she was before she 'transitioned'. A violent man looking at her sees the same potential victim.
Straight guys like boobs. It's no surprise that once she lopped them off he wasn't into it.
Yep, straight guys and lesbian chicks like boobs. Gay guys and straight chicks like dicks. Trans dating pool is extremely limited.
She seems insufferable. But you are right, what happens when she wakes up and finds out that she has been groomed by this older man and caused irreversible damage to herself? Really awful. I bet her parents feel terrible.
Especially if they paid for it.
I'm so sad for her.
Thank you, Exulansic xxx
A week or so ago, I said that another girl was likely to lose her boyfriend once the "top surgery" was done and he realizes that he does like breasts, after all. Sadly the most likely time for a woman to lose her husband is right after mastectomy for cancer. Breasts are a primary sexual signal in humans and the heuristic is too strong for too many males. We're going to see a lot of this: guys who are totally on board with their girlfriends "becoming men" until they have flat chests, and then the guys bail, because it turns out their male humanity has not changed. I hate this sick fad.
Yeah, well, since “regret” is a forbidden word in The Church, of course it comes out to “1%” on paper. I mean, she obviously grew up being gaslight, and now she’s gaslighting herself and everyone else. Very sad. Reality does suck, but it’s worse to be living in La La Land, like this unfortunate soul.
Wait, this is that insufferable young woman from that earlier video. This is going to be painful to watch. I just turned it off after exactly one minute (which was only a few seconds after Cal showed up). If I do watch the rest, it would be only because of my great devotion to all content that Exulansic publishes. If you end up publishing a transcription, I'll probably read that, instead, because it will be less painful.
OK, you win. I'm going to listen to it. But mostly I'm not watching, because I'm working in the other window.
Being in the minority makes you really important and you should be immediately given everything you think you want, regardless of impact on others because you’re a marginalised, oppressed minority. Detrans are just a minority though, unimportant, ignore them. How many do they have to be before they become an important minority? A majority?
I am reminded of the well-established psychological mechanism, in which the value one assigns to an experience or possession is proportional to how much stress one has to suffer in the course of said experience or attainment of said possession. It is the basis of hazing rituals, cult initiations, military inductions, etc…and this is no different. The idea that one may have experienced traumatic stress on the basis of questionable justifications produces such cognitive dissonance that the individual must accordingly increase their perceived value of the experience or attainment accordingly, such that the more ludicrous and unfounded the reasons given as justification, the more fervent will be the belief in their worthiness.
This is really interesting. I tend to put these things in their own little boxes. I keep forgetting about all the overlapping social habits and psychological mechanisms that are in play all the time. Thank you for bringing that up.
She looks like she comes from material security so I feel sorry for her family members who likely will have to pick up her pieces when she finally crashes and burns. (She probably won’t have to become a homeless sex worker.) Years ago, her family would have been able to place her in a secure facility for treatment before the breast surgeries.
Do you want recipes, dear? We'll cheer you on with the cooking projects. Also, this girl is classically beautiful in a female way, and was probably uncomfortable with male attention since she was maybe, 10 years old. Her voice isn't so awful, does that mean at least, that she's not taking testosterone? Such a shame. She's a pretty good mover, based on that one clip, and she could have been an active, strong female role model to active, strong girls. As the men I know say about females like her, so sad. Guys do not consider her part of their club.
Yeah, it’s funny how she talks about not wanting unwanted male attention and thinks that means she’s not really a woman. Does she think women want unwanted attention? I guess that’s what being engrossed in TikTok and Instagram makes you believe...
Apparently she's a big-time hiker (and has claimed the title of first non-binary person to through-hike some long trail), so she is strong and active. It also seems like she doesn't post too much when she's out on the trail, so hopefully now that a-hole boyfriend is gone, she'll get back outside and off of TikTok. Too late to avoid surgery though.
And being a hiker, it makes so much sense that she'd be looking for safety walking alone in the world. She might have the attack on Claudia Brenner and Rebecca Wight on the Appalachian Trail in the 80's on her mind (Wight died, Brenner was badly hurt but survived and wrote a book about it: https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Bullets-Surviving-Anti-Gay-Violence/dp/1563410559). Instead of transitioning, she could put her efforts into creating safer hiking environments for women. But that's kinda the NB M.O.: bail out of feminism and only think of yourself. "You can stay female, suckers! I'm outta here!"
I'm like 2 minutes in and already furious. It's NOT "better" to be a boy. It's just different. Puberty is a nightmare, and given that women DO have so many constraints (although certainly less now than ever before in Western countries), I understand this childish thought process. I even had it a bit myself. It took me a long time to appreciate being a woman. But women have our own special power, our own place, our own strengths that are different but no less awesome than men. It sucks that the trans movement seeks to diminish and erase women so thoroughly, and it's infuriating to see women buy into this shit and go "yeah, women suck, I don't want to be one" Fuck that. Women are amazing. Being a woman is amazing. Sure, not all the time, but it can't possibly be awesome to be a man all the time, either.
I'm saying this because I believe it to be true: EVERY LITTLE GIRL wishes she were a boy at one point or another. If it's not right at puberty, it's sooner. For me, it was when I was 6 and wanted nothing more than to race bikes with the boys in the neighborhood all day and climb on people's garage roofs and explore abandoned houses when I wasn't racing my bike. (and scraping my knees to the point where my father actually made a comment about my making myself unfit for marriage because my knees were so deeply scarred.)
We all go through it. Every last one of us. Most of us are level headed enough to get through it understanding that there are certain parameters in life that cannot be changed. Some are foolish and selfish enough to think they can mold the world around their wishes.
Blame Disney, blame permissive parents and the everyone-is-a-winner culture we've created, or just blame the zeitgeist. Hell, maybe it's narcissism brought on by an urge to self-destruct that nature has programmed into humanity to cull the herd when the population gets too big for the planet, like whales beaching themselves. I don't know, I don't care. All I know is it happens to every one of us. We just deal with it, unlike these self-obsessed loons.
Never ever ever wished to be a boy. So please do not project your own experience onto me and other women who had no desire to be male.
I'm going to say this to you once, and then we're never going to speak again.
I was a preschool teacher, an early childhood educator, a supervising instructor in early childhood education facilities. I've taught first year university students and I have worked in a group home.
If you honestly think, there was never one moment in your life when you wished you could do the things the boys could do, then you have a memory problem that cannot be addressed here, or you are lying to protect a fragile sense of self.
Either way., I don't appreciate the attack and I don't believe you. If I knew how to block someone on this platform, I would block you now. I have don't have any time or any inclination to talk to people who can't cope with the well documented facts of human development. I don't have time to teach you and I don't like your tone.
I hope that's clear. If you think I sound snide or harsh or condescending, I just want to affirm that impression. I'm not trying to be nice to you. I'm not even actually talking to you. addressing a personal slight with a personal smack back, along with some real, hard, objectively verifiable data for the benefit of anyone who might feel like defending their enduring lady-feels to the point of sounding hysterical is a good idea. It's not a good idea. Do the research. It's normal for girls to wish away the limitations of being female in this patriarchal culture. It's abnormal to claim you never had any kind of thought or feeling that might be even slightly divergent from the patriarchal template laid out for women. That is not normal. That is not healthy.
We're done now. Stop talking to me.
I NEVER EVER WISHED TO BE A BOY.
YOU are the problem, projecting your own feelings onto others and denying others their own feelings.
Their enduring lady-feels? When the fuck was I ever a lady? I'm a strong, fierce woman and I don't allow anyone to tell me what I am, what I experienced. I had a fierce mother for a role model and that's the best thing any girl can wish for. Why in hell would I want to be an inferior being for even one second?
Actually I *never* wanted to be a boy. I remember thinking they were odd creatures, even pitiable sometimes. At 13 I realized girls were glad to be girls, and boys very glad to be boys, and that was a good thing. It was inbuilt, nature’s way of helping us live comfortably as we are. Those few who didn’t have this mechanism would be in for a very hard time indeed.
Wishing you had a few properties of the other, like running faster (lots of girls re: many boys), or liking fashion more than trucks (a few boys re: what girls seem to do), isn’t the same as wanting to entirely BE the other—just to enjoy that trait or fit in with some group, any group.
I do however wonder if something on this order has changed, whether owing to chemicals in the environment, or planet level stress from overpopulation, or who-knows.
I never wished I had any properties boys seemed to possess! I chased my boy neighbor up a tree because he was annoying me, and I broke the stick another boy was trying to hit me and my best friend with. So boys looked weak to me, and I have endless sympathies with girls who were forced to be "feminine" and boys who were forced to be "masculine."
Gender roles seem to be increasingly rigid. I think as males seem increasingly unnecessary -- how many men outside of a place such as rural Maine do manly things? -- we will see genderism become worse and worse. As men get weaker and more incompetent (if a dude could hang a picture on a wall in NYC he was seen as a real handy guy), women will have to become ever sillier in order to provide a contrast.