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Margie's avatar

Wait, but everyone has to accommodating, overly accommodating...bending over backwards accommodating, to their own needs? You, sir, can proceed directly ahead to go phluck yourself. It's 5:30 am and it's already too much internet already

The dress looks good on you, btw. Nice butt 😁

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Pearl Red Moon's avatar

I see your dress....and soon you'll be able to see mine!

At the Womens Declaration conference in San Francisco over the weekend of the 15th a member of the organisation is holding an art exhibition called "A Nasty Piece of Work: the Art of Dissident Feminists". She has collected artworks from 12 women internationally who have been cancelled and vilified for speaking up for womens rights.

After I was expelled from the Australian Wearable Art Festival because of having attended Kellie-Jay Keenes #SFW rallies in Australia the American woman organising the exhibition bought the artwork I had intended to show at the festival. It is a dress called "Wedding Gown For a Woman to Marry Her Garden" and will be exhibited along with these other artists - Laura Becker, candio, Claudia Clare, Jess de Wahls, Melissa Gwyn, Laura Ichikawa, Rosie Kay, Sarah Vaci, Nina Paley, The Famous Artist Birdy Rose and Beverley Talbott.

While you're at the conference I hope you'll seek out the show to see my artwork, I believe it will be in the same hotel as the conference...and marvel at the connections gender critical women are making all around the world.

If theres anything you can do to help Jean promote the art exhibition please email me so I can put you in contact with her....pearl@upstairs-art.com.au

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Liesel's avatar

I saw a photo of the dress you made, I believe on Facebook, and it's fabulous.

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Pearl Red Moon's avatar

thankyou!

If you are able please visit when the exhibition is open in San Francisco. You'll find the website by googling the exhibition name but the organiser isn't giving the location information yet. She tells me it is an easy walk from the hotel of the WDI convention. More videos of the garment are on my YT channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtdImzXldUiDL-PLerVAXBg

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Barbyrabaker's avatar

To clarify: victims of assault by penis have no right to be triggered by penis, but wearing a t-shirt that says "Adult Human Female" is LITERAL VIOLENCE! WHY DO YOU DENY MY EXISTENCE?

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Meg's avatar

they can't handle seeing a hand crocheted pink p*ssy hat but female SA victims have to accept strangers' male genitals being thrown in their face. make it make sense!

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Sarah Bear's avatar

Women speaking is genocide!

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Matt Osborne's avatar

Quoting Paris Hilton: "Hawt"

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Erin King's avatar

Oooh, I like this dress, very glam!

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Radwitch's avatar

i remember getting into a debate with a woman who could not comprehend my point that a male in a space for female rape survivors could be triggering for them because 'transwomen are women'. the lack of empathy for female rape survivors is truly heartbreaking. and adds to my belief a lot of the general populations of liberals don't have a lot of transwomen in their life and really do imagine women when they talk about them. being in 'queer spaces' and meeting a lot of trans people really helped me reach my peak trans. and realize how misogynistic they all are. the guy's point is literally that women are secondary to men's existence. a stone's throw from 'men just have needs' and us women must accommodate.

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Amanda Kovattana's avatar

I love all your outfits, you nerdy lesbian you. Hah. These clothing requirements were why I didn't hang out with lesbians back in the days of flannel shirts and overalls. (I just dated bi girls.) I still fit into my vintage little black cocktail dress. I might have to bring it out again.

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Íris Erlingsdóttir's avatar

I hope this TRA has shared his solution w/fellow TwansChurch members who want the green light to modify society so they won't be "triggered" for whatever bloody reason: "it's on them" to avoid the triggering sitution.

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katansi's avatar

It is hard to imagine you ever attempting to pass as a man.

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Exulansic's avatar

I was very confused!

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katansi's avatar

What did you see in the mirror? I get mistaken for a man a couplefew times a year and I can understand it due to height, wide shoulders, small chest etc., especially from behind, but you are so female shaped and petite.

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katansi's avatar

Aaaaaand fuck that guy.

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Emma P33L's avatar

a nerdy lesbian wouldn't wear a sparkly sexy dress ?? who sez THAT ?? All that's missing is a gorgeous butch vrooming her motorcycle at you.

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Mildred's avatar

Not surprising since that person is a narcissist, and that seems to be a requirement to be a trans activist or to be outspoken about "trans rights." A good example of do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do values. Anyway, you hit another ball (balls? dink?) out the park, thanks, Ex! Excellent points about disabled people's and rape victims' rights. They come first, as they should.

The dress is very cute, though maybe too girly for a women's conference... but I'm a square, what can I say?! But if you must, at least add a feather boa to the outfit. Also good for you, speaking at conferences. Getting the word out.

BTW, what did that a**hole mean by "dink"? Has many meanings, seems he meant "nitwit," whereas it was clear what you meant by "dink." You were accurate in your usage, he was not, unless he was looking in the mirror, although in his case there'd probably be no reflection.

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Meg's avatar

whenever I hear 'dink' I think Dual Income No Kids lol

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Sarah Bear's avatar

He was just a Y away from success…Dinky!

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Mildred's avatar

Not sure who or what Dinky is. Is it that unicorn cartoon?

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Samantha Lee's avatar

As a woman *simply existing* in womens spaces, I’m not the one being accommodated. The man with the penis is the one asking for the accommodation. Not me.

All of these arguments for “inclusivity” are based on the idea that because trans people have mental issues (like being prone to suicidal thoughts), we need to accommodate them. And yet in the same breath they say that women with mental health issues should suck it up, because society shouldn’t have to accommodate them. Funny how that works.

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Melissa DeBiase's avatar

You have a great body, feel free to show it off and don’t fret over the opinions of others

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Melissa DeBiase's avatar

“It’s my job to avoid and work through my triggers”

Yes. Exactly. Stop blowing a gasket and demanding legislation and vengeance when you get “misgendered”.

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Mysterious Stranger's avatar

Women are so amazing and under-appreciated is an understatement 💙

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