Doxxed by TRAs on Christmas

I thought I would make it through 2023 without this happening again, but no!

I've redacted the information to protect the innocent people associated with this address and phone number, which do not belong to me currently. It was sent to me directly by one account and posted publicly by at least one other. Fortunately, the information included is quite old, meaning they may have used my name, which was doxxed last year by DSD gender identity activist Claire Graham, to gain access to old information through a background check website. I have no reason to believe they know where I currently live or how to contact me, but it's of course unsettling that they tried and feel that they succeeded. I also received a list of people they also believed to be related to me, most of whom are strangers in addition to the relative Claire Graham also doxxed and published last year (2022) in her quest to say my high school history class drawing of Hitler made me a threat to babies.

As some of you know, I was also stalked earlier this year by a woman who goes by the handle Chicana Feminista and is quite close with Karen Davis. Chicana came to my city and secretly filmed me at a store I walked to from my apartment, then sent me stills from the video, multiple harassing texts and emails on multiple occasions (and she'd already been told not to contact me before she did all of this), and posted statements to the effect that I was already dead. I consider this pattern of behavior to qualify as intended to intimidate and threaten a reasonable person and it did in fact have this intended effect, resulting ultimately in relocating.

When I reached out to Karen Davis, someone I considered a friend, supporter and confidante at the time this happened, she went on X and mocked me because she thinks it's entertaining when women in the GC world who aren't her get stalked. I don't really get why that's funny to her, which is why we don't talk anymore. She also bizarrely denied that she'd ever been the target of such behavior, when we were both targeted by the Grahamites last year on Gettr who circulated her information as well.

It is difficult to do this work publicly and to have my face and name attached to this project. We are fundamentally fighting a group of people who are enthusiastic mimics, which means that they really don't have anything stopping them from pretending to be feminist or gender critical. We have to be aware that sheep's clothing sometimes contains wolves. Not everyone who identifies as a feminist, pro-reality, or GC is on our side. And if they are, they may still be too lacking in scruples to collaborate with.

Despite the stress, the work is also meaningful and rewarding. I believe I'm helping people connect dots that might have taken a long time to connect otherwise, as it did for me. I have no plans to shutter the project. This is not the first time they've implied a threat to me or my loved ones or circulated my private information. It is of course obscene to go after a person’s family, especially children. I've seen GCers like Meghan Murphy do that to Billboard Chris and EJ Rosetta do that to Posie Parker in 2023, and it is so goddamn disheartening because the line between the side of good and the side of wrongdoing start to blur. We have to be better than this so we can recognize the mimics within our midst and know when we need to take a break because we've been pulled down too far by the people we're trying to pull up.

If you want to support me, you can do so by reporting the post and account, being sure to only circulate an the redacted version of this post where my full name, address, and phone number are hidden, and of course, not attempting to call the number or show up at the address hoping to see me (you will not).

Thank you everyone for your ongoing support and participation with my content. I appreciate you very much.