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A child denying other trans who detransed the kindness of acknowledging their validity when they bleat and scream all the time be kind to me im a victim, I need you to validate me NO!

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Normal teenage angst, indeed, but profitable and with high social status.

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. What really threatens this poor girl is the potential loss of her new elevated status. She was just another girl hating puberty and now she is special, and no one ever likes to admit a mistake, especially when you are young and know everything.

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Yes to everything you've said. AND I

see true evil at work. CRT has made it bad and wrong to be white. Where can a white child fit in socially now? Nonbinary, trans or other 🌈 affiliation is their safe zone from their sin of being born into the white oppressor group. The white kids will be made sterile. As I watch these videos I see mostly white children and young adults. This is a genocide.

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If isn't even just CRT. My brother came out white passing and so he got anti white harassment at school. I was spared and it was one of the first experiences that taught me in Latino areas especially, I don't pass. He was so bullied over it.

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Totally agree. Demonising and dehumanising a whole " class " of people whether by sex or race is the first step towards GENOCIDE ,even FEMiCIDE. That's how the Nazis got started.. Racism has never been a solely white trait which the CRT proponents no doubt know full well ,therefore they try to change history and silence the rest of us. Shameful !!

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I once dated a Chinese American guy, 2nd or 3rd generation. He told me stories about Chinese hating other Chinese based on how close or how far they were born from the Yangtzee River. Born far away and you were considered a dog (bad.) Chinese hated anyone who wasn't Chinese.

I once had a roommate, half American, half Vietnamese. She told me about sitting on a plane next to two Vietnamese women. They were ridiculing her and her brother - they were young children - the grown women laughing and calling her and her brother "monkeys" due to their mixed race. My friend became furious and shouted loudly at the women, in Vietnamese, "I understand everything you're saying!" The looked ashamed and stopped talking. She was 6.

My adopted daughter is half Mexican. My grandson can pass for Latino, even tho his father is light skinned & has green eyes. I'm glad of that in our current culture. If he were blonde like the other children in my family I'd insist on him being homeschooled. He is a very masculine little boy and I know hes gonna take a lot of shit for that. They will try to beat it out of him.

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Lol this was happening long before Fox News started its crocodile tears and conspiracies about CRT in schools. Trace this shit back to tumblr and social media and discussions of intersectionality going mainstream and teens misunderstanding the concept and constructing tiers of oppression and white kids mad they weren’t being listened to and trying to opt out or pretend they didn’t have privileges based on race or sex or class ect.

Describing white people iding as made up bs as “genocide” is not only offensive but ridiculous. No one is coming for the white babies. There is no “replacement theory”. Let’s criticize the actual actions happening, not pretend white kids are being targeted and murdered for being white.

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Why do people instantly assume that any opinions that are not leftist ideology come from Fox News?

We haven't had TV or cable programming in the house for over 15 years.

I have no idea what Fox News broadcasts. Their programming is likely as toxic and divisive as the rest of it.

What I do know as a trained and licensed hypnotherapist is that that people are in a state of programmable hypnosis within 10 minutes of sitting in front of a moving screen.

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Honestly just the emo kids writing emo poems back from when I was a teenager

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"Why does her authentic self take practice?" Bingo. This video brings back memories. I used to watch the pretty, popular girls and what they wore. So I'd save my allowance/babysitting money and go buy the outfits and shoes they wore. Then I felt pretty. I was figuring it all out. Now, of course, I know that the girls I was watching were watching others themselves. We all felt weird and we all did a lot of faking it. The girl I watched the most, Nadine, cut school one day with some boys to go skiing. She was killed in a head-on collision on a mountain road that day. I stopped perceiving other girls as luckier than i was after that.

I just want to hug this child. That's the emotion her video brings out in me. I want to tell her that when I was 12 I thought it would be a good idea to slash my face with a razor blade so grown men would stop looking at me in a creepy way. I want to tell her that I grew out of that and I'm very glad I never did it. I never would have had the chance to grow out of that desire if there were doctors and face slashing clinics everywhere willing to disfigure my face. Insisting it was right to disfigure my face.

I'm glad you're feeling better! Super glad you're cats aren't a problem for you 💖

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"Choosing their own selfish values over my happiness."

The perfect teenage lack of self-awareness or consequences. Kids also want ice cream for breakfast because it makes them happy, diabetes be damned.

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I see a lot of similarities to mental health advocacy. Essentially, different people are suffering to different degrees, but it is hard to identify the population who would benefit or be harmed from various treatments. There are problems with over-treating/over medicating, but for some they are the best (or only) treatment we have. The people for whom they are necessary seem to be frustrated by the conversation tending to focus on the problems for those who are over-treated and insist that these treatments are necessary, as you would know if you had to deal with their issues yourself, and all the others should just be quiet and stop talking about non-drug treatments. Like them, this person claims that their dysphoria is so incredibly worse that they are not the same condition. Back to mental illness, if treatment has been a net positive for anyone, I am very glad. I felt traumatized by my experience with involuntary hospitalization due to post-partum psychosis. The first SSRI they prescribed me after discharge (because apparently, it is necessary to be on these drugs for one year post partum, just in case) caused me to gain 15 pounds in 2 weeks. This is the only side effect they took seriously so they switched me to another type. The weight gain stopped, but the new one caused me to be constantly falling asleep, 14-16 hours a day (more than my newborn). I had to hire someone to essentially babysit me babysitting my own child. My self esteem crumbled and I hated myself intently for being such a failure that I couldn't even watch my own child. I had never suffered from poor mental health before and I felt like the drugs were making my life significantly harder not easier. They also left me feeling dead inside. When I discussed with my doctor the problems I had with oversleeping and other negative side effects, they dismissed it as being "probably just what my body needs", despite this not being the case with the other drug. I did not bring up how depressed I was because I was scared they'd send me back for involuntary treatment (just making my life worse). I wanted to die if I had to keep living this way. The only hope I had was counting down the days until I could go off these drugs. It's been two years off meds now. I'm back to sleeping a normal 8 hours. I lost the weight. I'm back at my normal high-level job. I am able to enjoy being a parent. I'm not disgusted by myself anymore. I don't go around telling anyone who benefited from these drugs to go off them, or pretend that I know anything about their struggles. But it would be nice to acknowledge how doctors would rather take the risk of doing too much than too little for liability reasons. And it would be nice to be trusted to be able to make my own decisions for my own life. It's interesting how this person understands that all trans people are different, but can't extrapolate that experience to detransitioners. If a person is able to recover from depression, it does not mean they were never depressed. We're all changing and growing in our minds. And we should all be happy when a person is able to recover in a way that results in them needing less treatment, not more.

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I was raised in the Roman Catholic Church. We were given white dresses and veils when we made our First Holy Communion and were given the Body of Christ (the wafer) for the first time. I’m wondering if a nose ring is the new dress and veil when you are welcomed into the trans church?

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repeating something over and over, rather than setting up a logical argument. not sure how old the girl is. appears teenage. the vociferous, irritable nature.

"who they were." this is a western, culturally-constructed idea, that we have some ineffable but stable authentic self. any buddhist study will illuminate for you how fallacious that is. we have traits and tendencies--empirically observed--at any moment of life. but we may change, everything changes. the search for the authentic self, most people discover after the confusion of adolescence, tends to fade as we just try things.

glad i'm not this girl's mother.

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I feel like the caricature of an old woman tut-tutting at an obnoxious and rather spoilt girl, shaking my head and my walking stick at her. I want to say, don't you have some chores to do? But she wouldn't know what chores are because she gets everything blown into her backside by her doting and/or scared parents.

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Is there no end to their self delusions ,or the lies they're prepared to tell to prop up those delusions ?The world's descending into absolute madness ,heading rapidly towards the abyss. We all know this ,and it's tragic that many more people have to be damaged before we can stop this. The people who devised all this must have truly DEMONIC minds ,but the supporters and enablers are useful idiots who ,like the rest of us ,will ultimately be abandoned by the Death Cult . Well done ,Exulansic ,for continuing to speak the truth.❤️👏👍

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Anyone else notice her attempt to lower her voice and try and talk like a bro? Also, a perfect example of internalised lesbophobia and so sad she thinks she’s straight now.

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What an angry and confused young lady. The trans logic doesn't make sense, even when they explain it.

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'I am no longer lesbian and I was never lesbian.' So which is it? 'I am not longer being bullied as a lesbian' is probably nearer the mark.

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