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Nicole's avatar

It's interesting to me that she "trusts the doctors" and holds them on a pedestal, yet how much do you want to bet she hasn't told any of the doctors/therapists that she posts all this about her daughter on social media?

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Just another voice's avatar

As someone who has the experience of dealing with a chronic, serious, "terminal" diagnosis, I will be the first to tell you, "trusting the science" and trusting doctors are two completely different things.

My original termination date, according to doctors, was 2003, at best. The most recent specialist seemed to think I should be grateful to get another six years. I fired him. My exit ticket is stamped for 2050. That's an appointment I intend to keep. But digressions aside, I have some experience in trusting science versus trusting doctors. They are two different things.

So I guess what I'm saying here is that her choice to trust the doctors is as ill informed as her other choices and actions and should not be accepted as a reason for doing this to her daughter. It's a nonsensical claim. Having doctors to consult on a problem does not absolve you of the responsibility for that problem. They are there to consult, they aren't God and they don't know everything. They barely know their patients. They see patients for a maximum of an hour a week. That's not enough time to pass judgement on someone's whole life. We each have to take personal responsibility for our own lives and that includes weighing the advice we get from medical specialists with advice from other medical specialists, our own awareness of our inner nature and our experience of our disease and whatever other hard cold science we can manage to read and understand.

If I've learned anything in a lifetime of outliving my prognosis, it's that.

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Nicole's avatar

Did you get the covid vaccine?

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Just another voice's avatar

Get away from me.

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Just another voice's avatar

I'm not suffering the commentary of anti-vaxxers. I will rip you a brand new asshole and I will take great pleasure in doing it.

You don't know me, so you don't know how cruel I can be but I can tell you this: I don't give a shit about your feelings and I am not accountable to you.

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Nicole's avatar

Dude.... I just asked a question. And I'll take that as a yes, yes and aren't you due for a booster shot?

You angry individual.. jeezo.

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Just another voice's avatar

You know what? People who deal with heart disease cannot afford to suffer assholes. Comments like yours are nothing to you because you apparently spend your days poking your nose into other people's private lives.

I am not accountable to you. You don't get to ask me personal questions. Period.

Wanna call it angry? You're an asshole. Period. Now get away from me.

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Just another voice's avatar

Sit there and waste your time wondering about it, asshole.

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Exulansic's avatar

Let's refrain from calling people names.

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Just another voice's avatar

I don't think you understand how cathartic is can be to rip one of you assholes apart. It's not a nice habit, I am trying to wean myself off of it, but sometimes, I do let myself off the leash.

Making comments about other people being due for a "booster" when you have not even seen that other person, don't know their name or anything else about them, is fucking rude. You are fucking rude.

Then there is the fact that the new shot has been out for a month, and it's not a booster. It's an entirely new thing, that's because there are new strains, and I very much hope you are one of the kind of anti-vaxxers who gets out there and mingles without a mask because this strain is a doozy and if anyone deserves a brush with it, it is the kind of person who would aim to exploit the fact that someone decided to draw on their personal experience with a terminal diagnosis to give the group another tool to use in the struggle to maintain the integrity of children's bodies.

"Reprehensible" would be a compliment used on you. You probably won't stop talking to me, people like you have very little else to occupy their lonely little lives but I want you to know, every time you speak to me, I am going to get a little bit meaner. And I will probably enjoy it.

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Just another voice's avatar

And I won't bother editing for style, spelling or content. You're not worth the effort.

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S A GOULD's avatar

Good for you. I know several friends who 'disappointed' their doctors by extending"their doctor's predicted expiration by many, many years.

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T A's avatar

Dear Just Another Voice, my father had Alzheimer - the doctors gave him lots of drugs and then he could not walk and they said he had 3 months to live. I cried. Then my dad started fighting my mom and refused to take the meds - within a few months, he made himself start crawling, then pulled up on furniture, broke a few tables when he accidentally fell sometimes, taught himself how to walk again and lived 3 more years. The doctors are not in charge of when you will pass on, GOD is. I hope you find your happiness during your life and find comfort in knowing that GOD knows the day or night when you will meet HIM.

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Just another voice's avatar

thank you.

People don't understand how fragile a will of iron can be. This comment is a tool I can use to keep on living. The others? Small weapons aimed at me to hasten my death, like arrows aimed at a person who is already bleeding. That's how it feels when you are on this side of the story.

So, from the bottom of my overworked heart, thank you.

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Jacqueline Peet's avatar

Just when I thought jazz jennings mom monster could not beaten here we are tada!!

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T A's avatar

Dear Jacqueline Peet - so funny - love the post.

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Sylvia Bern's avatar

Great video. Wonder how this woman would have expressed her narcissism if gender ideology wasnt in existence. Also I wonder if she has a job or other commitments, interests outside her family and if that grberally is a factor in transhausens.

Btw the new name of the daughter can still be heard at approx 41 minutes

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Matt Osborne's avatar

Mommy is the cancer.

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Samantha Lee's avatar

The call is coming from inside the house!

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Mysterious Stranger's avatar

I don't see any bodybuilders shooting up testosterone on TikTok

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Just another voice's avatar

that doesn't mean they're not there, (just saying)

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Mysterious Stranger's avatar

Love the color palette you have on today :3

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Mysterious Stranger's avatar

I saw Edward Scissorhands in the theater with my Grandma, and when we were leaving the theater, I was walking all stiff and my hands were attempting to be scissors... my Grandma asked "what are you doing?" I said "I'm Edward Scissorhands!" Imagine if she ran to all her friends and got me on the news and crowdfunded for my new name and scissor hand surgeries...

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T A's avatar

Mysterious Stranger, that's a really funny post.

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Geraldine MacKinnon's avatar

Poor kids. You must be absolutely crazy to behave like that. But, we’re in a new crazy loving world, aren’t we?

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Samantha Lee's avatar

Wow, a little defensive, aren’t we? If you don’t want people to criticize you, don’t put your personal shit out there for everyone to see.

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Thomas Smith's avatar

Why does she play with her hair so much? Is she flirting with the audience?

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Cait's avatar

Nervous habit, it's called (ironically) grooming behavior, I often do it when stressed, running fingers through hair, etc.

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Thomas Smith's avatar

I would be nervous too, were I in her position

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Winter babe's avatar

Yes, the wise male dating advice gurus that told you that female behavior includes "they're flirting with whatever they are looking at when they touch their hair" were absolutely right and know what they're talking about :D

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Thomas Smith's avatar

Yes? Idk what you mean by that yes The other responder said it could be nerves. By flirting do you mean to say"yes, nerves?"

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Exulansic's avatar

She said it's adhd stimming so we're ableist shitlords for being able to read her body language

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Cait's avatar

The minor's name is spoken around 21:00, fyi

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Just another voice's avatar

Holy Tik Tok filters Batman. She looks like three different people in these videos.Aside from that, I really do not understand why people take to Tik Tok with their most personal, intimate decisions and then act surprised when people react to those decisions. If you don't want a reaction, don't go on social media.

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Just another voice's avatar

I hate her linguistic tics. Hate them. And can we all please cast our minds back to our teens? How much did you enjoy sex in your teens? Probably not that much. It takes a while to figure it out.

This woman is making certain that her daughter will never, ever know what that clitoris might hav done to enhance her life. That's a big loss.

And just one more thing; if a person readily admits that therapy didn't work on them, then should they ever be in a position to decide if it's working on someone else? Especially if that someone else is a minor? Wouldn't it be better to wait until that individual is fully developed and capable of making decisions about their healthy, functioning body independent of the "therapy didn't work on me" parent?

I lied, there is one more thing: a close friend of mine had a daughter who started down this path. Together, everyone around this child decided to say nothing, ignore it all and play for time. The "trans" phase passed. She didn't get any extra attention for it, so it just kind of evaporated. And good thing too, she's about to give birth to her first child. She got married just last year.

Waiting doesn't hurt anyone and it can help.

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Mildred's avatar

Has this mother gotten any criticism on TikTok? Or would critics just get banned? Whatever, CPS should come after her for child abuse, but that's right, it's the brave new world. A thought, why doesn't mom just go get herself transitioned and leave her child the F alone... It's really all her problem and she's a main cause for her child's issues, but mom's a narcissist so will never seek help. Much easier to act out on her child. What a piece of trash. ... okay, I needed to keep watching the video to see that she did get criticism on TikTok, and thanks so much, Ex, for this. I hope she starts leaving her daughter alone. She needs to be stopped.

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T A's avatar

Please, pray for her, maybe GOD can find a way to heal her so she does things in her own life to get the attention and adoration she needs and let her daughter enjoy being a teenager.

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Thomas Smith's avatar

I cannot imagine my mother putting me on TT and telling the world ANYTHING about me at that age

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Thomas Smith's avatar

One more thing... "strugglebus?" That sounds infantalizing to me. Urban dictionary says it is struggling w/simple tasks. Shooting yourself up w/medicine to take your puberty is not a simple task

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Allison's avatar

Well...I think they want to make it seem simple so it doesn't appear she's putting her daughter through anything onerous. The way to get more adherents is to make it seem like everything is all roses and sunshine.

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T A's avatar

Sticking a big huge needle into your thigh does not sound like a simple task. I wonder does the teenager have the right to say NO to the doctor and refuse the shot?

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