Nicole Uhler is the adult daughter of Jon K. Uhler and Patricia Uhler. Jon Uhler is a gender critical commentator who first antagonizing me after AGPgate by demanding I contemplate what pornography Phil Illy watched the night before. I felt this was a truly bizarre comment from a supposed trauma informed therapist of survivors of sexual perpetrators, towards a woman he and others were saying had been perpetrated against by Illy just a few days prior. Later, after he went on with A Slightly Twisted Female, who failed to notice he's an abusive male sexologist, he began to harass me about my dog bite injury.
Jon blamed me, a victim of an unprovoked animal attack that left me with disfiguring facial injuries I'm still getting regular treatments to try to get rid of, for the actions of the dog. He even went so far as to say the animal attacked me because it sensed I was a predator! He alleged that I only oppose surgical transition because I have a pedophilic interest in unscarred bodies. So I quickly discerned that this guy is a true predator, psychologically abusive and sadistic, and he projects his derangement onto other people.
But nothing could have prepared me for Nicole’s testimony. Nicole describes the physical, spiritual, and verbal abuse in detail:
Nicole describes the emotionally incestuous relationship with her father Jon:
Nicole breaks down recalling the impact of the trauma on her life.
Part 2 is equally horrific with additional anecdotes. Check The Distance Magazine Substack for more. It'll drop next week I think. I've listened to it already.
Jon has responded to these allegations not by denying them, but by smearing his daughter as emotionally troubled, disturbed, grief stricken, an ableist divorcee, and a layabout who “refuses to go to work.” He actually claims, like a textbook narcissist, that “there was no pain” in Nicole's relationship with her father. What kind of parent is that delusional? Family relationships always have painful moments, especially between parent and child. His brilliant plan to save his reputation is to triangulate one child against the other. Like her brother has any more insight into her pain than Jon.