The dog looks confused and even slightly panicked. Even he/she knows something's not right. No wonder so many young women, including my daughter, are settling for dogs or cats instead of men. 🤨
Poor pup. These men are pure adolescent ego, with a total empathy bypass. They never grew up and society encouraged them to use and abuse women for their sexual kicks and sick power trip. It's a social-political disaster.
What a teeny head on such wide shoulders! Now, why would such a male want to be in a place where women's most intimate, personal, and physical struggles are discussed? He's there because he's misogynist. Marxist "queer theory" got exposed and now it's relabeled as "trans theory". It's looking more like misogynist liberation everyday. Shut them down.
Honestly, even if the person in question didn't have any questionable motives, I would feel very betrayed. I'm not okay with men touching me in medical situations. It doesn't matter what you do to try to cover up that fact, it's still going to trigger my panic response.
This is incredibly selfish behavior that could only be the result of male privilege.
Male OB/GYNs created a mythology that women can't feel our sexual organs and don't need pain relief during painful procedures. That's an entire field problem that continues to this day. They also used to tell people babies don't feel pain. I'm sorry but I don't think any of them get to say they're good.
So I would ask you, would you be comfortable submitting to a female doctor conducting a digital rectal exam of your prostate? Or further, how about a fully invasive biopsy of your prostate demanding open access to your widely spread legs and anus?
I don't know who you're talking to, but it can't be me. That's not my point of view. I can't even be offended or upset because it's just so laughably far from the truth.
If it makes you feel better to rage at me about things that are bothering you, though, feel free. Damn those women!
Yes. Considering all the information I put together in my recent blog about violence by trans identified individuals, adding the domestic sexual violence to the known mass shooters and murderers of the last few years is eye opening, even for me.
I had pelvic floor dysfunction, and muscle issues after a radical hysterectomy and bilateral oopherectomy for cervical cancer treatment. I already felt mutilated and lessened as a woman because of effects of my surgery and cold-turkey estrogen withdrawal that was NOT treated for two years leading to osteopenia at 51. I was vulnerable, ashamed and humiliated by needing pelvic floor PT.
I was able to find a female provider (all my providers are and were female, even the now-replaced one who did not allow me estrogen at 48). But it still was embarrassing and I felt lesser and weak and was grieving being a woman and trying to regain bladder control fully and become able to be at peace with my new body. Severe GSM/Vaginal atrophy. I admit it. It was invasive, awkward and I endured.
My female PT let me grieve and advocated for me. I got estrogen replacement and that even helped a lot on it’s own- but this woman was invading my body, giving me Kegel homework, bladder exercises and using tools to measure my muscle control and strength inside my body regularly. I still felt safe. She understood my anatomy and how gender and sexuality, and self-perception changes after cancer treatment and with GSM or hormones lost. I felt neutered, I was not likely fertile by 48, but I felt dehumanized and neutered and I still considered myself a woman- an adult female woman with XX chromosomes and just a less supported bladder, a estrogen starved traumatized urethra, a narrowing vagina that ended in a scar (“the cuff”) and and a clitoris all deprived from estrogen and use and atrophying and causing more problems.
My pelvic floor PT was a woman and she went into her gyn/oncology speciality PT because she didn’t want to women to cry, have shame, pain, bladder spasms, and pain and anxiety related to urination and intimacy after cancer- she saw what happened if untreated and the agony and illness and incredible shame she prevented.
She helped me immensely and I’ve recovered as much as humanly possible but a transwoman doesn’t have lived experience, knows the female anatomy as something experienced and grown up with and how it help forms a woman’s sexual identity, brings us joy, and can bring us terror,
abuse, humiliation and pain as well.
A transwoman has never had nerves cut that connected where mine were cut, or a bladder without a uterus as support suddenly, estrogen-loss caused atrophy, blood vessels lost and changed and will not experience the same trauma as my surgical and sudden transition to post-menopause when I was still menstruating months before the surgery.
I am a woman and had to fight for replacement estrogen. (Cancer survivors of gyn cancer use dilators too. We hate them, even when we stop needing to dilate). I wanted to remain a woman with my altered natal parts I had left in my body, not dilate an inverted male member that was closing because it was a wound- my “wound “ was to save my life and starved of the estrogen it always had and caused problems with my urethra and bladder control even. The TP papercuts were annoying and demoralizing)
I’ve my dignity back now. My body back. My ability to have joy back. I’ve healed but I’d have not been able to allow a man to treat me as an SA survivor or been comfortable. Womens pelvic floor PT should be administered by women- even for the same sex-attracted like me, there’s nothing erotic or fun or sexy about it. Only an AGP could and would make it so- it’s a way for men to violate already vulnerable ashamed women who are feeling destroyed and broken and defective.
I just needed PT, to strengthen muscles, relearn my new body, an expert to evaluate damage, reverse it with clinically proven methods, and demand estrogen replacement and medical care and a safe understanding compassionate provider who didn’t make it even weirder than than it already was and definitely didn’t enjoy it either.
Pelvic floor PT is not pleasant. Amazingly awkward and unsexy. Eventually, we made jokes on the PT table, but it took a lot before that care provider/PT relationship was established and we joked about my progress. I named the dilators. We laughed occasionally and celebrated my regaining my body’s normal function back as much as was possible. I couldn’t imagine having to do so with a man. It’d have me still ashamed, dehumanized and feeling gross and mutilated or refuse care but alive and facing decades of shame, pain, humiliation and anxiety ahead of me.
Thank you. I was so shocked at this. I felt I needed to advocate and speak out. They should treat those who are trans, who choose pelvic floor dysfunction.
For many women, we seek pelvic floor PT at our weakest and most vulnerable and scared. It’s not too much to demand a female healthcare provider for our quality of life. Cancer pts rarely speak about our dilation and such as we’re not proud of it. We just want pain relief, urinary control back, a quality of life improvement and function restored. We have no Tiktoks talking about our depth and width and such. Different “wounds”especially emotionally and socially (we don’t talk about it and becoming Barbie Dolls against our will to survive) and healing process mentally and physically entirely.
Thank you! I still do my various exercises daily! She met
me at the worst and helped me remaster basics I’d lost in my body. She allowed me to lead a life not afraid of being far from a bathroom and pain. I hope I never need h pelvic floor PT again though! 🤣 I have to engage muscles and use them or lose them! I never knew how many and how strong those muscles were until they failed me. The shame was terrible. The stigma of GSM/VA/gyn cancer survivor issues is not acceptable and gyn cancers must be spoken about!
I have endured dozens of pelvic floor therapy sessions for a pelvic nerve condition. “Pelvic floor therapy” is internal — it means shoving your fingers as far up a woman’s vagina as they can go and spending a long time palpating and pressing on internal muscles while she is in a naked, spread-leg position. It means asking every patient detailed questions about her sex life, urination, and genital pain. It is more invasive, more embarrassing, and can be much more painful than a gynecological exam. This man is a predator — an autogynephile predator. I am physically sick at the thought of him posing as a female so that he can penetrate women for 8 hours a day, and compel them to tell him about their most intimate and humiliating female bodily functions to satisfy his fetish — and get paid for it.
If the "trans" lie is allowed in any way, this will occur.
It just cannot be avoided. That's why they all, yes ALL including the totally normal but really delusional ones who get tons of plastic surgery, have to be told no from the beginning.
i sought this kind of therapy after a brutal sexual assault. i was also in physical therapy for a hip injury at the time, and i had to ask that i stop working with the male physical therapist and work with a woman instead because it was all too re-traumatizing. i cannot imagine trying to heal from my rape and end up being assaulted all over again by some sick pervert. this is beyond shameful. my heart goes out to the women that HE preyed upon.
And those of us with any amount of empathy can imagine this scenario, and it outrages us. I would say, even a suggestion that it could happen (sick pervert instead of professional therapist) would be enough to trigger trauma.
I am so deeply sorry for you 😒 and I am sorry you now live in a world that seems indifferent to your pain.
thank you for your warm and compassionate response ♥️ having the support and the understanding of my fellow women has really helped me heal. i wish you the best
I'm glad you are able to draw some comfort from the understanding of strangers...it's a testament to your resilience and commitment to healing. I wish YOU the best 💝
I must admit I didn’t know this existed. Given the obvious intimacy between patient and therapist I can’t imagine why a woman would want a man as her provider. But I can certainly imagine why a twisted man would develop a (lady) chubby merely by thinking about it.
I’d never ask my female Nurse Practitioner to give me a prostate exam. At least not until the third date. I have standards.
David Bellend more like!! Come on!! This stuff writes itself 😂
The dog looks confused and even slightly panicked. Even he/she knows something's not right. No wonder so many young women, including my daughter, are settling for dogs or cats instead of men. 🤨
Yeah, even a cat person like me can spot that dog making anxious “whale eyes” in both photos. 👀
Poor pup. These men are pure adolescent ego, with a total empathy bypass. They never grew up and society encouraged them to use and abuse women for their sexual kicks and sick power trip. It's a social-political disaster.
We can always count on our trans friends and neighbors to take social and sexual depravity to new and even more exciting heights, can’t we?
What a teeny head on such wide shoulders! Now, why would such a male want to be in a place where women's most intimate, personal, and physical struggles are discussed? He's there because he's misogynist. Marxist "queer theory" got exposed and now it's relabeled as "trans theory". It's looking more like misogynist liberation everyday. Shut them down.
Honestly, even if the person in question didn't have any questionable motives, I would feel very betrayed. I'm not okay with men touching me in medical situations. It doesn't matter what you do to try to cover up that fact, it's still going to trigger my panic response.
This is incredibly selfish behavior that could only be the result of male privilege.
Male OB/GYNs created a mythology that women can't feel our sexual organs and don't need pain relief during painful procedures. That's an entire field problem that continues to this day. They also used to tell people babies don't feel pain. I'm sorry but I don't think any of them get to say they're good.
So I would ask you, would you be comfortable submitting to a female doctor conducting a digital rectal exam of your prostate? Or further, how about a fully invasive biopsy of your prostate demanding open access to your widely spread legs and anus?
You can answer that for yourself. I don't think anyone would be comfortable.
Also, I don't have a prostate.
But if I had to have that done, I would want it completed by a woman, like the rest of my gynecological care.
I have, however, had my share of invasive and painful gynecological care. It's just a part of having this set of equipment.
Try being pregnant.
I don't know who you're talking to, but it can't be me. That's not my point of view. I can't even be offended or upset because it's just so laughably far from the truth.
If it makes you feel better to rage at me about things that are bothering you, though, feel free. Damn those women!
Could he be looking for the income from trans women looking for remediation and counseling for down below? That may be a growing specialized business.
(Yes, I see that his treating a female is creepy and I wouldn’t go along with it.)
Yes. Considering all the information I put together in my recent blog about violence by trans identified individuals, adding the domestic sexual violence to the known mass shooters and murderers of the last few years is eye opening, even for me.
https://uteheggen.substack.com/p/violent-crimes-by-opposite-sex-persona
Small Claims Court
ENRAGING. Pelvic Floor Therapy can be traumatic even with a kind and professional woman. This is even worse than male gynos, tbh.
You mean worse than a male gyno who's not masquerading as a female gyno? Yes, far worse, I think.
I had pelvic floor dysfunction, and muscle issues after a radical hysterectomy and bilateral oopherectomy for cervical cancer treatment. I already felt mutilated and lessened as a woman because of effects of my surgery and cold-turkey estrogen withdrawal that was NOT treated for two years leading to osteopenia at 51. I was vulnerable, ashamed and humiliated by needing pelvic floor PT.
I was able to find a female provider (all my providers are and were female, even the now-replaced one who did not allow me estrogen at 48). But it still was embarrassing and I felt lesser and weak and was grieving being a woman and trying to regain bladder control fully and become able to be at peace with my new body. Severe GSM/Vaginal atrophy. I admit it. It was invasive, awkward and I endured.
My female PT let me grieve and advocated for me. I got estrogen replacement and that even helped a lot on it’s own- but this woman was invading my body, giving me Kegel homework, bladder exercises and using tools to measure my muscle control and strength inside my body regularly. I still felt safe. She understood my anatomy and how gender and sexuality, and self-perception changes after cancer treatment and with GSM or hormones lost. I felt neutered, I was not likely fertile by 48, but I felt dehumanized and neutered and I still considered myself a woman- an adult female woman with XX chromosomes and just a less supported bladder, a estrogen starved traumatized urethra, a narrowing vagina that ended in a scar (“the cuff”) and and a clitoris all deprived from estrogen and use and atrophying and causing more problems.
My pelvic floor PT was a woman and she went into her gyn/oncology speciality PT because she didn’t want to women to cry, have shame, pain, bladder spasms, and pain and anxiety related to urination and intimacy after cancer- she saw what happened if untreated and the agony and illness and incredible shame she prevented.
She helped me immensely and I’ve recovered as much as humanly possible but a transwoman doesn’t have lived experience, knows the female anatomy as something experienced and grown up with and how it help forms a woman’s sexual identity, brings us joy, and can bring us terror,
abuse, humiliation and pain as well.
A transwoman has never had nerves cut that connected where mine were cut, or a bladder without a uterus as support suddenly, estrogen-loss caused atrophy, blood vessels lost and changed and will not experience the same trauma as my surgical and sudden transition to post-menopause when I was still menstruating months before the surgery.
I am a woman and had to fight for replacement estrogen. (Cancer survivors of gyn cancer use dilators too. We hate them, even when we stop needing to dilate). I wanted to remain a woman with my altered natal parts I had left in my body, not dilate an inverted male member that was closing because it was a wound- my “wound “ was to save my life and starved of the estrogen it always had and caused problems with my urethra and bladder control even. The TP papercuts were annoying and demoralizing)
I’ve my dignity back now. My body back. My ability to have joy back. I’ve healed but I’d have not been able to allow a man to treat me as an SA survivor or been comfortable. Womens pelvic floor PT should be administered by women- even for the same sex-attracted like me, there’s nothing erotic or fun or sexy about it. Only an AGP could and would make it so- it’s a way for men to violate already vulnerable ashamed women who are feeling destroyed and broken and defective.
I just needed PT, to strengthen muscles, relearn my new body, an expert to evaluate damage, reverse it with clinically proven methods, and demand estrogen replacement and medical care and a safe understanding compassionate provider who didn’t make it even weirder than than it already was and definitely didn’t enjoy it either.
Pelvic floor PT is not pleasant. Amazingly awkward and unsexy. Eventually, we made jokes on the PT table, but it took a lot before that care provider/PT relationship was established and we joked about my progress. I named the dilators. We laughed occasionally and celebrated my regaining my body’s normal function back as much as was possible. I couldn’t imagine having to do so with a man. It’d have me still ashamed, dehumanized and feeling gross and mutilated or refuse care but alive and facing decades of shame, pain, humiliation and anxiety ahead of me.
Thank you for sharing your story, powerful.
Thank you. I was so shocked at this. I felt I needed to advocate and speak out. They should treat those who are trans, who choose pelvic floor dysfunction.
For many women, we seek pelvic floor PT at our weakest and most vulnerable and scared. It’s not too much to demand a female healthcare provider for our quality of life. Cancer pts rarely speak about our dilation and such as we’re not proud of it. We just want pain relief, urinary control back, a quality of life improvement and function restored. We have no Tiktoks talking about our depth and width and such. Different “wounds”especially emotionally and socially (we don’t talk about it and becoming Barbie Dolls against our will to survive) and healing process mentally and physically entirely.
I'm glad you found a PT who was good at her job. Keep well xx
Thank you! I still do my various exercises daily! She met
me at the worst and helped me remaster basics I’d lost in my body. She allowed me to lead a life not afraid of being far from a bathroom and pain. I hope I never need h pelvic floor PT again though! 🤣 I have to engage muscles and use them or lose them! I never knew how many and how strong those muscles were until they failed me. The shame was terrible. The stigma of GSM/VA/gyn cancer survivor issues is not acceptable and gyn cancers must be spoken about!
A powerful statement that only a woman could write 💗
This is some sick shit.
I am so so fed up with this pernicious ideology and all the goddamn morons out there who enable it.
All of you "trans allies" are complicit. You're criminals.
The dog's onto it
I have endured dozens of pelvic floor therapy sessions for a pelvic nerve condition. “Pelvic floor therapy” is internal — it means shoving your fingers as far up a woman’s vagina as they can go and spending a long time palpating and pressing on internal muscles while she is in a naked, spread-leg position. It means asking every patient detailed questions about her sex life, urination, and genital pain. It is more invasive, more embarrassing, and can be much more painful than a gynecological exam. This man is a predator — an autogynephile predator. I am physically sick at the thought of him posing as a female so that he can penetrate women for 8 hours a day, and compel them to tell him about their most intimate and humiliating female bodily functions to satisfy his fetish — and get paid for it.
If the "trans" lie is allowed in any way, this will occur.
It just cannot be avoided. That's why they all, yes ALL including the totally normal but really delusional ones who get tons of plastic surgery, have to be told no from the beginning.
i sought this kind of therapy after a brutal sexual assault. i was also in physical therapy for a hip injury at the time, and i had to ask that i stop working with the male physical therapist and work with a woman instead because it was all too re-traumatizing. i cannot imagine trying to heal from my rape and end up being assaulted all over again by some sick pervert. this is beyond shameful. my heart goes out to the women that HE preyed upon.
And those of us with any amount of empathy can imagine this scenario, and it outrages us. I would say, even a suggestion that it could happen (sick pervert instead of professional therapist) would be enough to trigger trauma.
I am so deeply sorry for you 😒 and I am sorry you now live in a world that seems indifferent to your pain.
thank you for your warm and compassionate response ♥️ having the support and the understanding of my fellow women has really helped me heal. i wish you the best
I'm glad you are able to draw some comfort from the understanding of strangers...it's a testament to your resilience and commitment to healing. I wish YOU the best 💝
you are a very kind person. thank you so much, your words help more than you could possibly know :,)
😘😘😘
And yours too… because lately I've been called “full of hate” by a couple of decades long ‘friends’ (for my rejection of gender ideology)
When women support one another, great healing can happen, and the world is immediately a better place. So, thankyou.
“Pelvic floor therapist”
I must admit I didn’t know this existed. Given the obvious intimacy between patient and therapist I can’t imagine why a woman would want a man as her provider. But I can certainly imagine why a twisted man would develop a (lady) chubby merely by thinking about it.
I’d never ask my female Nurse Practitioner to give me a prostate exam. At least not until the third date. I have standards.