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Sorry to disappoint but I‘m not a supporter of „make any desired experience accessible to everyone.“ We are talking about babies here! A baby, having no choice, relying on parents to make responsible decisions for that fully dependent little one. If we start to focus on the parents‘ desire as priority, I‘m generally not in! Some conditions come with consequences and yes, that is tough in some cases. The individual problem is not solved by pretending that there is no problem bc the individual can be treeted to seem genetically normal for a while bc they look like any other woman in the mentioned case. What about the baby?!? Maybe a baby that isn‘t genetically the mother‘s just shouldn‘t be breastfed by that non biological mother. I‘m not supporting the surrogate „model“ either. If the wish to have a child is so huge although the man/woman can‘t produce a child, there‘s a way through adoption of one of the many children in orphanages in the own country.

I think to make everything possible for couples who want to have children by pretending „natural family“ can be dangerous because the focus is on thr adults only or mainly! We should stop pretending that everything we want is possible. It‘s the usual human arrogance and ignorance of nature which should give us a moment to think about when we are about to rush into anything we so madly wished to be true but is not…

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